I made this post and forgot to save my password. I saved it this time, lol. I’ll answer those questions from that post here though since you all took the time to write them, it’s only fair i think. In the same order they were posted in, here we go (:


“What social media do you use, and what made you decide to create an account on Lemmy?”

None that I will give out here! haha but most of the usual ones, ig, snap, used to use tiktok but deleted it, reddit… I think that’s it. I decided to try lemme out because reddit is getting ridiculous with rules and shit, one of my accounts got banned from a sub because of a power trip, I posted from another account, then the account got banned from the site and now I’m here hoping it’s a good replacement. A little concerned most of the posts are just that one Mickey guy tho lmao, nothing against you mickey but where’s all the people


“Which Linux distro do you run?”

Uhh… I ran a 5k once? Lol I know linux is like an alt for windows or mac, no idea what a distro is. Is it cool?


“All SFW questions so far. So I’ll start: What do you consider your biggest achievement in bed?”

I’m gonna take this one literally and only include things that happened in an actual bed, don’t want to ruin the fun and reveal everything all at once! One of my close friends would tell me how he couldn’t cum from head, didn’t matter how good they were. We we were always a little flirty but never did anything for years, but one night he was talking about it and I said I bet I could, there was a back and forth teasing and then his cock was in my mouth. He wasn’t lying - he did not want to cum. Or, he did, but his cock didn’t. I have never to this day put so much effort, for so long, into sucking one cock, and was ready to give up just from how much my jaw hurt, when finally I got him (: I don’t know how long it took, it felt like fucking hours but I think it was more like 1.


“Do you believe in a deterministic model of the universe or do you think that the cosmos is chaotic and infinite?”

I dunno about chaotic but infinite


“What’s your favourite dinosaur? :3”

i like the ones with the long necks, and those tiny ones that ate that guy in jurassic park (i think the 2nd movie?)

Ok this is getting way too long, I’m gonna skip to just answering new comments (can ask old questions again or link to em but I don’t wanna type anymore lol.


I will answer this one though:

“what do you expect to accomplish here?”

getting turned on

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    1. How sensitive is your clit? Can it take direct and intense stimulation, does it take only light stimulation directly, or can you only stimulate it through the hood?
    2. Does your clitoris stick out outside the hood normally or does it stay inside?
    3. How big would you say your clitoris is?
    4. In what ways do you like your clitoris to be stimulated?
    5. When you are aroused, what happens to your clit?
    6. When you are having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it throb? Does it stay the same?
    7. After you’re are done having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it become sensitive, or does it stay the same?
    8. Are there any extra sensitive or less sensitive spots on your clitoris? Where?
    9. Have you ever injured or bruised your clit? How did that go?

    As for orgasms:

    1. What does your standard orgasm feel like? How do you prefer to get there?
    2. Can you describe how the clitoral and the g-spot orgasm feel? (muscle tension, tingling sensations, etc.)
    3. Is it hard for you to reach multiple orgasms?
    4. Do multiple orgasms feel different than just one? How do they feel different?
    5. Is it possible to have too many and if so, what does that feel like?
    6. Is there a point where you have to “recharge” like men before you can have the next orgasm?
    7. Is it possible for you to stop your self from having an orgasm when you are having one?
    8. How have your orgasms changed with age
    9. How long are your orgasms?
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      This is a lot of questions and I’m like trying to do some “self care” at the same time so I’ma be quick with them cause I’m not that good at typing with one hand

      1. extremely, “can it?” I mean it does any way, doesn’t matter if I can take it if I can just be held down. I get the tingles from getting rubbed outside of jeans nevermind the hood lmao

      2. I’m an innie I’d say

      3. I have never been asked this question… is this like, something guys think about? I don’t even know my measurements enough to say

      4. lovingly, or forcefully. It depends on the vibes. slow circles with the tongue at a stead pace that slowly gets faster, and like moves away or licks down my pussy then comes back, that’s great. Or being tied up/held down while someone flicks it with their tongue an I look and sound like I’m having an exorcism trying to push them away or get away just by instinct. (don’t let me get away)

      5. You are very particular about clitoral details. I’ve heard of ass or tits men, but i guess your a clit guy huh? Well it’s like a super mini version of what happens to a cock, a bit of bloodflow. But obv not rock hard and sticking out, not sure if its even noticeable to guys (though seems like it would be to you)

      6. Idk if my clit throbs, it feels like my whole pussy’s kind of “throbbing,” though I feel like there’s better words for it

      7. Sensitive if I got a lot of use. I guess a little more sensitive typically anyway, but I cum easily so not really that sensitive until I’ve been put through it

      8. Yes… kind of? Idk it’s more the motion and other sensations that amplify it, it can be hard to separate, but underneath is a bit more

      9. Not bruised like black and blue, only sore and red and a little swollen. It was fine after a few days and totally worth it

      10. heaven. It’s better than any drugs I’ve tried, that’s for sure. Feels like I’m on drugs. I don’t have one preference, variety is the spice of life and I enjoy it most if the other person or people are also enjoing themselves, so I can appreciate slow and sensual, clit flicking torture lol

      11. This one is too hard to put in words, but from what I’ve talked to guys about, it sounds similar to ejaculation but more intense. muscle tension depends on the sex, if you mean like whole body. My pussy will contract and squeeze in and off a cock, but if it’s slower/more sensual, I squirm slowly and arch my back without pulling away, if its rough or I’m just fiending I start spazzing out

      12. no

      13. i mean it feels like multiple orgasms. Guys get tired after the cum, like sexually but also physically they need a minute, I don’t get that part as much. maybe think of how it feels to almost cum but then hold back and edge yourself and bring yourself down a bit, like that. But if I cum from something and they just keep going, it can also feerl like a sustatined orgasm that just doesn’t stop.

      14. At a certain point it’s like if you get tickled for too long it starts to get uncomfortable and you want it to stop, but also it keeps feeling good and I don’t want it to stop simultaneously. its less about too many orgasms and more about nonstop cumming, or just how long/hard i get used. And yes there can definitely be too much, but lube and recovery days go a long way.

      15. Not really. If I’m with multiple guys I feel myself come down a bit if a guy comes in me, I’ll keep climaxing as I feel his cum and a bit after him, then if they switch, it does kinda feel like a semi-reset, I don’t just go straight back to cumming. It’s about the vibes and his energy, I guess

      16. If I’m masturbating yes, if it’s sensual or more casual sex and I tell them to chill then yes, if I tell them to chill and they choose not to then no

      17. that’s a good one… I tihnk two things come to mind. one is not actually age so much as mindset. when I was young there was more shame and negative self talk for what I was doing, wanted, or fantasized about, which took away from the experience as a whole, at least in memory. As I got older - especially when I went to college - and learned to just embrace my nymph side and not be ashamed, I was able to be more open to the experiences which makes the orgasms better. But at the same time, there were some when I was younger that felt like I was on drugs. I had a lot more pent up sexual energy and I was constantly horny for a few years there, and some of my first time experiences made me cum hard even if I wasn’t sure how to feel about it at tthe time.

      18. This is easiest to answer based on masturbating where it’s more of a up and down, I’d say it lasts about a minute usually. sometimes less, can do more with toys.

      That was a lot

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          i know it’s common with guys, def not surprised there. was surprised to learn how many girls have it as a kink. and I have! with one, I mean, and it probably wasn’t as well done as other more experienced people make it. I’m not a very good actor i guess, lmao. but it was fun (:

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            Don’t worry about comparing yourself to other people’s scenes or how good an actor you were. Just the fact that you had someone you trusted enough to give it a try puts you far and above most people’s experience. The hardest part of the process is finding someone who respects you enough to disrespect you 😄 Besides, it just means it will be better next time!

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                Nope and I doubt I ever will 😅 Cnc exists in a weird space for me where I love all the elements of it, but not necessarily the whole package. Mostly I really love bondage and the feeling of being restrained and helpless AND being objectified and treated like an object, but not necessarily the forced aspects of it all. That doesn’t mean I don’t like to imagine the thought of it though 🤭

                What would your ideal scenario look like?

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                  Mostly I really love bondage and the feeling of being restrained and helpless AND being objectified and treated like an object, but not necessarily the forced aspects of it all.

                  You should look into freeuse, that’s not too far from CNC

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      Ever been to a BDSM party? Half the people there are in IT. The other half in medicine. Every other profession is an outlier.

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        People don’t seem to understand that high functioning autism correlates with high technical competency and also high openness to new / unconventional experiences.

        Doing the social dance of finding a mate? Oh we’re awful at trying to decipher the mating rituals of neurotypicals.

        Just give us a sex club with fairly clearly defined rules.

        Muuuuch less complicated.

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            Every day I get closer and closer to thinking that making a ‘dating’ app that requires you to get above a certain threshold on a RAADS V type test is actually a very good idea.

            High functioning autistic people tend to have this apparently magical abilility to say what they mean and mean what they say… would simplify things a lot for us if we just literally screened out the normies.

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              I’m down. I need an autistic mommy domme that loves me. It’s us that should rule the world. The NT’s have had their chance. Also, RFK Jr. can go fuck himself with a rake.

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                I can’t say I’ve ever met an autistic domme woman, but I also just haven’t met too many autistic women, full stop.

                Most of the ones I have met are submissive or maybr a switch, but I’ve never met a pure domme autist woman.

                But, that’s just an anecdote.

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    Welcome to lemmy! We are few but we do have much better conversations here.

    The adult industry has shifted a lot over the last ten years. I’m assuming you’re either not involved, or new to bring a model. With that in mind, what avenue would you take to start career for yourself in the adult industry?

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    Have you ever been with someone who was into feet/sucked your toes/etc?

    Also, what’s the goofiest and/or weirdest thing you’ve ever been like “well, ok, i dunno why that turns me on, but whatever”? lol (Like, for example, a few years back I was dating this girl that had gotten these prosthetic vampire fang things from Wish that i didn’t know about and had popped them in to try them on that night and I was all, “I’ve got something you can suck the blood out of” :-p

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      Yes and it’s incredibly ticklish lmao and idk about specifics but guys being just genuine guys acting funny, not trying to be cool or tough. Like seeing a bromance thing. Also when a guy has a special interest and just starts going on about it all excitedly, doesn’t even matter what it is.

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    If you could choose any sex toy no matter the price which one would you get?

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    Eh, I’ll bite, why not? What’s the most consecutive orgasms you’ve been put through in a single session, whether via your own hands, a toy, or someone else?

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      I’ve gotten this one before and honestly it’s hard to say because at a certain point it just feels like I’m continuously orgasming, and being like tied up or something I’ve had guys put me through that for a while. With guys it usually ends up like that or I cum 1-3 times before they finish, with myself and other women it is more stop and go, but I’d hold the record there… depending on if sitting around naked and playing with myself off and on all day counts as one session 😅 did that more when I was younger though

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    You told a story about it taking forever to get a guy to cum by blowing him. You said that you finally succeeded. Did you let him stream his load into your mouth or did you move to hand job only and let his ropes of cum shoot freely? My GF friend just hates those crusty dried cum stains anywhere in the house and for cleanliness prefers to swallow my load.

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      Let? I don’t really choose, if they cum from head it’s pretty much always in my mouth though, and yeah I swallow lol not for cleanliness though l

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    A little flurry of horny questions:

    What are some small specific acts you like done to you when being dominated? Like leash pulling, having your wrists or neck held, being made to struggle, pulled by the legs or held down?

    What do you think of deep throating? In theory very appealing, but looks uncomfortable. I’d like to try it some day.

    What do you think of the one bar prison?

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      I love being bent over and my head pushed into the bed/couch, especially if there’s like nothing sexy happening and he just decides to fuck me. Big yes to everything you said haha I love being tied up with my hands behind my back ankles tied to the bed frame. I really enjoy cnc so I have been made to struggle… I really try to get away too and the feeling like I actually can’t stop it if I wanted to, I mean obviously I’m with people I trust so I’m not really afraid but sometimes it gets pretty intense.

      Idk I love deepthroating, I wouldn’t call it comfortable physically but also I think I just got used to it pretty quick, and the pleasure outweighs the discomfort. Though getting seriously facefucked is definitely uncomfortable, it’s hot as fuck that’s part of the fun. Obv depends on your gag reflex and the guy’s size too, everyone’s different. You just gotta breath through your nose and relax your throat, lick around the cock and do a sucking motion for added sensation, they love it

      Unless you mean you’d love to try it as in you have a cock you want deepthroated, in which case I’m sure you’ll find the right mouth ❤️

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          I’ve been called many things but interesting is not a common one haha, why’d you say oh god tho?

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            For this part “I love being tied up with my hands behind my back ankles tied to the bed frame. I really enjoy cnc so I have been made to struggle… I really try to get away too and the feeling like I actually can’t stop it if I wanted to,”