Wife-sharing seems to have cuckolding almost as a co-requisite. I seek to share and swap my partner as a Dominant kink, having her do kinky stuff for my entertainment and because it merely crossed my mind. I’m not into humiliation, nor is my partner. Yet it seems difficult to find share/swap dynamics without the cuckold aspect.
For those with swap and share kinks, how many find the humiliation aspect appealing or unappealing? And our particular flavor can’t be all that rare, right? Non-cuckold sharing folk, let’s see a show of hands!
I recently learned about the stag and vixen terms while looking into the same question. It is nice to have a word for it.
I also enjoy some dominance of my partners when having sex with other people, just as I do in other sexual contexts. But my most prominent feeling when my partners have had sex with other people, with or without my involvement, has just been a joyous “Hell yeah, we got some! Go team!”