So, I’m in a long-term relationship with my loving partner, and everything is good, except for the matters of sex. Suffice it to say, one partner (male) has a very overwhelming sexual drive, while the other (female) needs sex like once a month (and it has always been so throughout life). Partners are monogamous and do not explore options of having a third party.
Can any good advice be derived for such cases? Is there something that can be done to improve things on each side? I would love to hear your advice.
I appreciate you sharing! Unfortunately I did have this conversation before marriage and she was receptive even more open to another woman, however, she’s since backed off in interest for unknown reasons. So I more or less feel like the “rug has been pulled from under me” like she said that go lock my down and never intended to actually pursue.
Sad. Maybe it’s time to ask what changed? “I had the feeling I knew you on this topic but how do you feel about it today?” could be a relevant question, with mutual respect ofc. You don’t want her to be pressured, neither feel put aside