I was reading Wikipedia about the origins of 23 and came across this neat tidbit:
On the RMS Titanic there was a watertight door on E Deck numbered 23 which was informally called the “skidoo door” according to the testimony of the Chief Baker Charles John Joughin.













I’ve felt a lot of what you’re feeling before and it sucks, I’m sorry that’s happening. One thing that may help is to decide a minimum number of nights you want for yourself per week, then talk about it with your wife. My wife is similar where she also plans all the things and generally wants me to spend time with her each night. But if I tell her, “I’m taking Wednesday nights and Friday nights for myself,” she’ll understand and respect it. Doing this also helps me actually relax during that time because if I establish that I’m supposed to be doing this, then I don’t have guilt that I’m supposed to be with her instead (this may not apply to you though). It doesn’t sound to me like divorce is the next logical step for you. Tweaking expectations and schedules may alleviate some of what you’re feeling.