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  • borderlinemiss@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    Okay, between her 3 hundred open coffee jars, constant bodily movements, fights, calls and panic attack Facetimes I’d be terrified to ever step a foot in Ashley’s car 😬

  • 101020304@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    Why is she with Manuel? He never smiles. Complains, criticizes… expected her to automatically send money to his family… like instead of taking care of her dog. Boy. Bye!

    • SirTinyHat@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      There is no chemistry there and they have showed no kindness towards each other. They do seem to like boning, but nothing else.

    • alswidow@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      Plus he seems to be making no effort to learn English. All he does is expect her to fund his family. It’s not like he is all that. At least a guy she might meet outside 7/11 might speak rudimentary English. He must have a magical d.

      • omglolnub@alien.topB
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        10 months ago

        He looks like any other day laborer you can find anywhere. I don’t get the appeal

        That said, she’s truly unhinged with her coffee habits lmao. Like, opening multiple coffees at once is deranged lol

        • marmalade_@alien.topB
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          10 months ago

          I told my husband he looks like every day laborer that hangs outside the gas station smoking cigs all day. I don’t understand what she sees in him at all

    • BrulesJules@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      If coffee is this big of a fight this early on… 🚩🚩🚩

      They need to just part ways

        • levelzerogyro@alien.topB
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          10 months ago

          Well she does talk to him like you would scold a 3 year old. She treats her dog with more respect. She also doesn’t seem to want him to be a person, just simply to exist as her toy.

    • Shells1982@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      Technically it’s both their business if they’re going to be married. He is clearly very frugal and she definitely isn’t.

      • GilesLiberty@alien.topB
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        10 months ago

        He just got there and he doesn’t know what she makes or how she spends her money. So if she has a coffee fund that is her business. He also doesn’t want her to take her dog to the vet because she should be supporting his family. He’s a bum.

      • alisonjansenmusic@alien.topB
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        10 months ago

        NY is not a community property state. He has no right to her money, now, or when they’re married. Each persons income is their own property.

      • skeptic_narcoleptic@alien.topB
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        10 months ago

        Definitely not. People are always surprised at how many drinks I carry with me, but I do not open them all at once or expect other people to hold them for me while I drive.

    • well____duh@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      It’s an unwritten requirement to be on this show. That and one person in the relationship must fail a psych eval.

  • VexMythoclastRegime@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    Hopefully Rob stops his bs. Geno and Jasmine are such a shitshow, it’s not even entertaining at this point. Devins parents seem cool. Justin’s parents are really nice. Manuel is an ass, Why was she drinking 3 things of coffee at the same time 😂😂

    • ImproperUsername@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      I see Manuel only pointing out her coffee intake because he thinks she should stop spending money on that and sending it to his family instead

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      10 months ago

      I know! Sounds like Ashley is double-fisting coffee all day. She also makes coffee at home, AND goes out to buy it from cafes? Did I get that right?

  • ella003@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    I can actually agree with Jasmine about the bachelor party. I mean WTF Gino. I get it that Gino has grown a pair now that he’s in the US with backup but still. Lies and gaslighting. No. ✌️

    • md28usmc@alien.topB
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      10 months ago

      Jasmine seems to have forgotten about her having a stripper grinding all up on her for her divorce party when she left Gino a few hotel rooms down by himself without telling him

      • kitty7855427@alien.topB
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        10 months ago

        Wasn’t the stripper a surprise from her friends? And didn’t Gino find out like the same or next day? I don’t really remember the details

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    10 months ago

    Manuel just irks me. I know he would never speak the way he does if the therapist they were seeing were a man.

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    10 months ago

    Nick, baby, not only you are the only Asian there, you’re more than likely going to be the sole minority there. Best of luck.

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      10 months ago

      Why isn’t he dating someone in LA? He could have a huge community outside of his relationship. What did he expect of Arkansas or Tennessee?

  • WayFar978@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    How does Anali’s father not know why she’s in the US when her mother clearly does? Something doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me. What am I missing?

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        10 months ago

        I know a south Asian woman who dated a guy for a few years who’s dad was pretty racist towards non-south-Asians, so she hid the relationship from him for quite a while.

        The plan she came up with, with her mom’s help, was to slow-roll the roll out of the relationship over a few years. Mom knew everything and started planting seeds with dad, talking about love is love, she wants her daughter to be happy etc etc

        When dad was finally introduced to the boyfriend he was relieved, given the hints and work that had been put in he thought his daughter was gay.

        In these patriarchal cultures sometimes you have to protect yourself, even if it means not doing the things that are “most true” to yourself.