I returned to my home country and home town for the first time after 7 years and the place is barely recognizable.

  • It is more crowded than ever. I hardly saw a traffic jam in the past, but now the main streets are consistently clogged between 4 and 5 pm, and every single car park is full during the day.

  • There is no free parking anymore anywhere. Everywhere I used to park previously there are now parking meters.

  • Many of the shops I used to frequent are either gone or relocated far outside the city, and they are replaced by yet another Chanel boutique or some cookie cutter tourist trap.

  • The all-inclusive unlimited public transport ticket I used to have is being discontinued, and the city’s public transport monopoly now charges based on distance travelled, meaning that cost of public transport doubles for most regular commuters.

  • We also had a chocolate factory nearby that used to do public tours, to which I was looking forward to, but turns out they don’t do that anymore because of “public health concerns”.

  • There used to be exactly one homeless guy in our city, whom everybody knew by name, now there is one at every corner, and there are organized groups of beggars from a different country

I’ve been in North America, Europe and South Asia this year and I can’t shake the feeling that quality of life is gradually deteriorating everywhere.

Please tell me I am wrong. Where have you been lately where things overall are actually getting better rather than worse?

  • 1ksassa@alien.topOPBEnglish
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    10 months ago

    If a town is built for 100k-120k people and within a few years it goes up to 200k there will obviously be issues and things will not be as calm and quiet as it used to.

    I think this is exactly what happened. You’re right. No such thing as a forever comfortable place.

    The key must be to find a small livable town before everybody else does and things go downhill, stay for a few years, then look for your next home.