Not sure if I feel bad for Danielle because of the bait-and-switch she supposedly pulled after they got married, and the timeline is not clear. Do you think Yohan started cheating on Danielle only after she told him that they were going to stay in the D.R. (instead of moving to USA like he wanted)? Or was he cheating even before that?

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    10 months ago

    Cheating before that, Yohan is a sanky panky… if this is even real, Daniele was kidding herself to think their relationship was anything more than transactional.

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      10 months ago

      He told her he was marrying her because he loved her. He lied to her and she believed him. How was she supposed to know that?

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        10 months ago

        That is what sanky pankies / Tunisian love rats / Yahoo boys / other love scammers do: tell you they love you so you can give them things. She can easily learn which he is by NOT giving him things/money and see how he reacts… but IF this storyline is even real, she was never interested in that; she wanted to be able to flaunt this big strapping man and his baby arm dick, and now she’s surprised he’s a POS. He’s been a dick to her from the very beginning, this behavior is not surprising.

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          10 months ago

          You’re just victim blaming. The people that steal and take advantage of people are to blame for their own actions and no one else. You must not have watched Love in Paradise because he was not “a dick to her from the very beginning”. He told her he loved her.

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            10 months ago

            Listen, you’re not going to find any Yohan apologist over here. Yohan is a piece of shit and fully to blame for his behavior; that’s a given we can state outright so that we don’t waste any more time on it.

            I think why this is nuanced is because Daniele also lied to him: she told him that they would move to the States when she had no intention of doing so. She lied about it because she knew he would leave if he knew the truth. She didn’t truly love him, she wanted a big Dominican dick she could cuddle and control. That’s why this isn’t as cut and dry as other situations- they scammed each other.

            And for the record, I did watch Love In Paradise, I’ve seen every single one of their episodes; and I stand by it, he was a dick to her from the very beginning. He casually ate $200 in peanuts and then told her she was making a big deal out of nothing when she rightfully complained. Yeah he said he loved her, but his actions have shown otherwise.

            Again, IF any of this is even real!

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    10 months ago

    He is a gross sanky panky! I actually love that Danielle didn’t just bring him to the US. He’s a user and deserves to live in the slums. I hope his next american gives him even less! I called this from the beginning but everyone seemed to be on his side because they thought she owed him the green card or something.

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    10 months ago

    Yohan like many, had a plan to marry an American wealthy woman and use his sexual tool to buy that. It’s a barter deal. If you like sex better than a good working man that is looking to work hard to build a power couple, then YOU SIGNED UP FOR THAT.

    Just like the Middle Aged over weight dude that marries a young hottie. Convince yourself that she’s after you because you are as smoking hot as you think you are. Then they are shocked when they use all your money and bounce.

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    10 months ago

    How can you feel sorry for either of them? Are either of them honest, trustworthy people who should have the privilege of raising a child? One is after money, a life in the USA & supposedly a baby & the other wants a place to live that won’t send her back to the USA for fleeing for tax evasion (?) & for the desire for a big penis. It’s really rather disgusting that one is cheating on the other. Really?? There are so many ways to lie, cheat, take advantage… I’d say they are both cheating, each in his/her own way…… mercy! Help us if they procreate!

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    10 months ago

    Bait and switch? Do you mean marrying a woman for money and a green card but telling her it’s for love? I am so sick of hearing she did him wrong by not moving him to the US! On vacation, when we meet a sanky panky, should we just be nice and move them to the US? Don’t forget that for 10 yrs you’re also financially responsible for them too. That’s what everyone seems to think we should’ve done for yohan. Why? Because he said that’s what he wanted. Who cares!!!

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    10 months ago

    I believe Yohan’s been running a US woman scam long before Danielle popped up at the resort.

    She’s probably the first to offer him more than a vacation fling. He clung onto her words in hopes they were truthful and something that WAS going to happen if he got with her, reasonable thing to assume when you don’t really know someone and choose to believe them.

    However, I believe that at that time, these were her pipe dreams she was trying to “manifest” as opposed to actual plans based on her actual capabilities.

    He was going to ride the wave as long as he could and squeeze every drop of juice from that orange. Meanwhile he’s got back ups, he’s not going to be left with nothing or no options.

    That’s a calculated career scammer right there.

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    10 months ago

    I think he may have cheated when she went to see her ex. It would give him more incentive.

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    10 months ago

    I definitely have…feelings…about how Danielle behaves, but idk I feel for her still. Whatever you feel about her personality, Yohan knew what it was and chose to marry her. Cheating is like the most avoidable thing in a relationship. If he didn’t want to be faithful anymore, he should’ve ended it.

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    10 months ago

    Yohan is a loser and I don’t know who would want his azz! He’s disrespectful and thinks everything should be given to him it’s gross us in America struggle to we all aren’t rich

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    10 months ago

    You know what, Danielle is a size-queen who was infatuated with Yohan for one reason. What was she thinking in selecting him for a partner other than the D? Education? Business acumen? Ability to be a good provider? We like watching these 90 day relationships bc they are train wrecks waiting to happen.