Currently living in AUS/NZ with SO. We’re going to be trying for a kid soon, but we have no support network here and no family to help out. I think we should move back to the States, where I’m 100% certain family members would come to help us out for as long as we needed. Given the distance, that just wouldn’t happen if we stayed in AUS/NZ. SO thinks we can just handle it on our own.

We wouldn’t need to find new jobs, as we can just transfer internally. Would taking advantage of your home support network be enough of a reason to back to your home country?

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    10 months ago

    You are entitled to your opinion. I am sorry you had those experiences.

    Myself (despite being a foreigner and my wife working full time), have not had such experiences and have had only positive ones in Germany. My wife also happens to earn a lot more money than I do and I have never heard the things you mention.

    Truth be told, you sound like you are not enjoying your time in Germany, given how incisive your comments were. I know that, were I not happy here, I would not remain.