Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 5 months ago

What do you think of this convo? Am I in the wrong?

Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 5 months ago

So I saw a post on this girl having trouble with her bf and it reminded me of me. I (19NB) am having trouble with my girlfriend (18F). I dated her a while ago but had trouble with my ex who I still thought about I believe, so I stopped liking her. Now we are together but with problems because apparently I’m in the wrong for wanting to call my best friend and see what he’s up to

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That’s how it is with my ex, TBH. And he likes me, my gf is just monogamous.

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