I’ve been dating this amazing women for a few months then recently got into a relationship a few weeks ago, but she’s more sensitive than I am. I’m more laid back and don’t let things bother me and love dark offensive humor for shock value…she’s the opposite doesn’t like certain things said and say gets offended if I jokingly flip off (which I do to people I’m close to as a sogn of ironic love) for example. However our core beliefs like politics, religion, and personalities align for most part.
I’m not sure if this type of incompatibility is bad though and worried things might not last or how I can keep it. She did say she’s fine with me still being my full self around others I’m friends with just not her. Am I walking on egg shells?
If you’re gonna have a relationship, that means making some effort to make each other feel comfortable. Giving up on being vulgar is not a huge sacrifice - if anything it might be good to learn to make do without vulgarisms, as it tends ds to be an easy way out rather than very valuable interaction.
If it feels like too much of a sacrifice for you then that’s probably a bad sign for the relationship. You need to be willing to make an effort, and she needs to feel both comfortable and heard around you.
Give it a shot I’d say. In either case there’s no relationship without making an effort. :)