• AlwaysCravingMore@fedinsfw.app
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    14 days ago

    Things I learned from my bff/roomie many years ago (I did two ‘parties’ with her but never worked in a club, just visited her for free drinks on occasion to be perfectly clear)

    • strippers do date customers
    • there is sex in the champagne room depending on the club / level of sketch / amount of money in your pocket
    • some strippers have drug problems, some are responsible and own a few houses, some are just looking for a baby daddy way out, there is no real vibe there, everybody is different
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      14 days ago

      I’ve been to exactly one strip club in my life, when my ex-girlfriend took me.

      She decided to go for the champagne room and while we were in there, the girl that was stripping for us ate my girlfriend out. It was hot.

      So I can confirm that there is sex in the champagne room, at least once.

      But I’m also willing to bet that if I had gone by myself, nothing like that would have happened.

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        14 days ago

        Not a stripper, but:

        Lets just say that apparently there was a no touch rule for clients at a club I went to a few times, and also apparently that didn’t really matter in a private room, if you’re respectful.

        Didn’t get all the way into what I’d call ‘sex’, but I totally do not doubt that it at least somewhat often does.

        I can also tell you that at least some strippers are also ‘escorts’, though probably not exactly officially.

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          2 days ago

          As an additional “not a stripper but…” perspective: a friend of mine started their journey into sex work as a stripper, then moved into escorting “after” that - there was definitely overlap.

          They now work with ludicrously rich clients and own a house in their city and work far fewer hours than I do, so I can also say that the responsible ones who have marketed themselves to the right clientele male absolute bank.

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            2 days ago

            Oh yeah.

            There definitely are some actual, proper, professional escorts, who have just actually very succesful careers.

            Takes a very uncommon combination of beauty, fitness, business savvy, social intelligence, and basically luck, to pull that off though.