which is precisely why everyone is staying single. they are disgusted by each other’s vulnerability and humanity.

and people do not work on their trauma, they expect their partner to fix it for them. and they think you’re an asshole if you don’t make them magically happy and make up for all the shit their daddy/mommy didn’t do for them. and they are totally clueless to the concept that… they can do that for themselves! they are no longer helpless children!