The incident log for the Red Means No CNC party that’s popular in rat / postrat circles.

Highlights include ‘non-negotiated’ penetration and a woman being dropped on the floor so hard it gave her a concussion.

  • CinnasVerses@awful.systems
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    3 天前

    I would be fascinated to hear from kinksters who have run similar events.

    They are keen on controlling contact and fluid-borne infections, but don’t talk about airborne infection control. Rationalists have a “COVID is over and RSV sounds like a Linux distro” party line which separates them from alienated nerds I know.

    Events I attend which combine alcohol and a risky physical activity have a one-drink maximum, or once you drink alcohol no more playing for you, not a subjective “Don’t drink too much.”

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      I’ve never been to such an event, let alone tried to organize one, but I’ve socially known various people who’ve done them (kink but not CNC, to my knowledge) and a few sex workers who did kink professionally, and my guess is that alcohol just would not be allowed. You don’t do Jägerbombs before trying a climbing wall, and you don’t bring a substance that impairs judgment and worsens coordination to your sex party, for goodness’ sake.