• starchylemming@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    does it only apply to women?

    what about ramontic gay couples snacking a third platonically? is that a rhinoceros ?

    also some straight couples look for a man, you gotta be flexible you know

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      5 days ago

      My wife and I are in the lifestyle.

      It’s incredibly easy to find a male third.

      A bisexual woman who is willing to join a heterosexual couple is much much harder to find. That’s why they call em unicorns.

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        5 days ago

        Wow, I found it much, much more difficult to find bisexual men wanting threesomes than women. But that may simply be because it was easier as a woman to find other women to join.

        I consider both men and women willing to join couples unicorns.

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      When you’re a dude in your 20s, the husband is in his 60s, and the wife is in her 40s, there’s a good chance he’s more of a observer than a participant.