• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    14 days ago

    Agreed. A sub that… basically doesn’t communicate, at all?

    Honestly, infuriating, genuinely not enjoyable, at least to me personally.

    There may be a few people who want to fuck an actual ‘not a person’ slave… not me.

    But also… you can actually punish that.

    Denial.

    If you … require… communication… do not reward the lack of it.

    If you just let them get away with their poor behavior… well you’re not topping/domming very well, now are you?

    At that point you’re basically a service top, who is also expected to read minds.

    There are different … preferences and styles here, people define these terms somewhat differently… not trying to broadly knock any of them, but… yeah you’re not really in control, if you’re the one doing all the physical and mental work, now are you? That’s at least how I see it.

    Actually require them to answer questions with more complex answers than ‘yes/no’, otherwise, literally sit there and twiddle your thumbs.