Well, I can’t fake a creampie, so there’s that. We’re married and willing to have a kid if it happens, so no condoms or other birth control (yay!)
But, I’m disabled, so there’s times where we reach the point where pain makes the orgasm not worth it from me (luckily, she is able to achieve such quickly and easily with good technique).
We’re honest about such things. She knows it’s just my body not having the stamina it used to, not anything about her. So, if we hit the half hour/45 minute mark, and the pain is preventing it, we switch to getting her one last one (if she wants) through whatever methods she’s in the mood for, and then just cool off and cuddle.
But, yeah, I’ve always been open about that kind of thing. If I’m close enough to a person to be having sex with them, I’m not going to lie to them about anything. I’ve never been able to do quickies at all, and I’m up front about that, even with short term partners. Life is too short to bullshit through human interactions like that.
Well, I can’t fake a creampie, so there’s that. We’re married and willing to have a kid if it happens, so no condoms or other birth control (yay!)
But, I’m disabled, so there’s times where we reach the point where pain makes the orgasm not worth it from me (luckily, she is able to achieve such quickly and easily with good technique).
We’re honest about such things. She knows it’s just my body not having the stamina it used to, not anything about her. So, if we hit the half hour/45 minute mark, and the pain is preventing it, we switch to getting her one last one (if she wants) through whatever methods she’s in the mood for, and then just cool off and cuddle.
But, yeah, I’ve always been open about that kind of thing. If I’m close enough to a person to be having sex with them, I’m not going to lie to them about anything. I’ve never been able to do quickies at all, and I’m up front about that, even with short term partners. Life is too short to bullshit through human interactions like that.