I honestly see twerking as a turn off but it seems like so many NSFW short videos are nothing but twerking.

  • lost_faith@lemmy.ca
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    29 days ago

    Unpopular opinion time, hehe.

    When in person these will end my interest; perfume (rather smell you than whatever THAT is), makeup (rather see you than your art skills), and augmented breasts. There are other things like personality but I doubt a bad attitude is a turn on for anyone

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      28 days ago

      No impact on friendships but can be a no-go on dates.

      For me it’s really a matter of confidence. NEEDING perfume and makeup to feel comfortable is a turn off. NOT NEEDING them is actually a bit of a turn on, and “imperfections” are very attractive. Doing makeup out of enjoyment is fine, just use high quality stuff so it doesn’t smell. Most perfumes and colognes smell terrible to me to the point where i can’t focus and honestly, BO is hot.

      • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.comBanned from community
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        27 days ago

        This makes sense. I had a friend in middle school who said it’s very important to only occasionally wear makeup because otherwise you will start thinking you look bad without it, instead of thinking you good with it.