people have been demonizing it for most of the AD years i think but it’s quite pleasant really. are there any proven negative effects?

  • TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee
    22·
    7 months ago

    I just gently informed the other person that they were giving bad advice,

    Do you really think they were giving bad advice? They presented something really well thought-out and with flippin citations! And I can say that Hayes is absolutely a credible expert in the field who has done amazing work in mental health and addiction.

    You just don’t like the answer. Because you believe the answer is too hard for you.

    And it’s an easy excuse to say you’re being persecuted for your identity, but really it is your attitude being criticized. Honestly it’s frustratingly transphobic of you to try and lump in maladaptive sexual responses with transness too. Do you see what kind of damage it can potentially do to portray a hypersexual trait as something essentially trans???

    • MindTraveller@lemmy.caEnglish
      23·
      7 months ago

      It’s good advice in general, but it’s bad advice for me, as I already explained multiple times. And I’m asexual, not hypersexual. I tell you I’m getting genital nullification surgery and you still go and erase my very obvious queerness.