Let’s say you’re hanging out in a swimsuit, you’ve been in and out of the water, a plausible time to get a “veggie”. If you get one, is it immediately noticeable to you? Or do you have to occasionally check so you’re not like “oh god how long have I been walking around like this”?

  • notsosure@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    15·
    2 days ago

    Most often I’m not aware of it, until some spotty teenage boy doesn’t stop staring, or some ugly older guy smiles at me “knowingly”.

    • IDKYouChoose@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      1·
      1 day ago

      Ok that’s actually helpful to know, thanks. If a friend notices, would you appreciate them discretely letting you know? Or would you prefer if they just didn’t mention it at all?

      • troubleagain@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
        9·
        16 hours ago

        Common rule of life, if someone could fix something within five seconds, let them know.

        “Hey a part of your shirt is tucked in” “Hey you have something in your teeth” “Hey I see your impressive labia”