• lurch (he/him)@sh.itjust.works
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      5 months ago

      that’s not the phones fault though. a lot of people don’t expect that. it’s a personal choice and i consider people who expect it toxic

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      5 months ago

      Very true, in my family I get a lot of shit for trying to avoid using my phone. Apparently XMPP just isn’t good enough for some people, gotta use horrendous compromised standards like sms/mms/rcs voip and cellular networks instead.