I like essential oils. I add them to a homemade beard balm to make my face smell nice all day. I like prescription drugs, too. Weird to mention those two in the same sentence, but OK.
There are plenty of essential oils that smell really nice, and are nice to have in soaps or candles or whatever, but I just can’t bring myself to give money to any of the companies that make them cause they all support crazies and pseudoscience. If there’s a company that doesn’t, I’d love to hear about it.
3 oz beeswax
2 oz coconut oil
1 tsp essential oil or beard oil
In a double boiler, melt coconut oil and wax.
Stir until thoroughly mixed.
Remove from heat and allow the mixture to begin to cool.
Before the melted mixture begins to solidify, add essential oil and stir thoroughly.
Pour into containers and allow the mixture to harden.
To use, scrape a pea-sized amount with the back of your thumbnail, and rub it between your palms to melt.
Rub the melted wax into your beard, starting at the follicles and comb through with your fingers.
Shape and style as desired.
Reapply as needed.
Sure, I do roughly 3:2 ratio of beeswax and coconut oil by weight. I have a long, curly beard and a long mustache, so I like to have a little bit of hold to it. My beard is naturally soft, so it doesn’t really get scratchy or oily, but it will tangle if I don’t brush it frequently. The wax helps me look like less of a crazy homeless person.
Melt them both in a double boiler (I just use a metal bowl that fits in our small saucepot). After it is thoroughly melted and mixed, I take it off the heat and stir in about a teaspoon of essential oils. Heat can denature or evaporate the flavor compounds, so you don’t want to cook them. Then just pour it into a jar and let it cool. I’ve kept a bunch of old Oui Yogurt jars and bought lids, and I also bough a 48 pack of tiny plastic lip balm containers for portability. Those are great because I can put different flavors into different containers and try smaller quantities without wasting a bunch of wax.
I’ve also received a few different gift sets of various scented beard oils, which in my experience are often too strong, so I’ve used those to flavor the balm.
For essential oils, I like citrus like lemon, bergamot, or grapefruit, sometimes I use tea tree or eucalyptus and mint, and my wife really likes sandalwood, vanilla and bourbon. I am not a huge fan of cedar or oak, or the floral scents like lavender or rose. It’s going to be on my face all day, so I want it to be something that I like to smell, but not overpowering. Nobody on the subway should be able to smell my beard.
I think overall I spent about $50 on beeswax, organic coconut oil, and essential oils (not including the gifts) and have been using it almost daily for about 2 years.
The coconut oil did pass the “best by” date a few months ago, but I keep it in a cool, dark place and it doesn’t smell off yet. I’ll probably buy some fresh this fall.
The balm will develop an “off” smell if you leave it in the sun. I usually make fresh balm every 6-8 weeks. The small plastic jars last about a week, and the yogurt jar lasts about a month.
Edited to add the recipe up front. I realized I did that recipe blog thing that I hate where you have to read a journal entry to find the actual recipe.
Sounds like a good balm, but I think it will be a bit much for me. My hair is fairly scratchy, and i need stuff to soften it, so I think this may be a bit heavy for me.
You can decrease the wax and add more oil. But yeah, that’s a different problem than what I have. You might sub in shea butter, which I found made my beard too soft, but take that with a grain of salt because I didn’t like it.
I’m not a fan of leave in conditioners. Everyone I have tried has left me feeling idk gross after an hour. I occasionally use oil, but I mainly just use beard conditioner or this super thick coconut and shea butter like once a week. I just want a balm for a light hold.
I always try to point out that “alternative” means it’s something different than. Like an alternative to something that helps. You wouldn’t eat “alternative food.” Because it’s not food.
I like a couple of drops in shea butter for my skin and in a bath with Epsom salts for relaxing tight muscles and the scent relaxes the mind and makes me smell good.
Maybe. I never heard the detox stuff until now. A MD and on a different occasion, PT recommended 15 minute soaks with it, 12 being the magic minute. Either way, it softens the water, so that’s nice, and it’s inexpensive.
I like essential oils. I add them to a homemade beard balm to make my face smell nice all day. I like prescription drugs, too. Weird to mention those two in the same sentence, but OK.
There are plenty of essential oils that smell really nice, and are nice to have in soaps or candles or whatever, but I just can’t bring myself to give money to any of the companies that make them cause they all support crazies and pseudoscience. If there’s a company that doesn’t, I’d love to hear about it.
Do you mind sharing your recipe for the beard balm and how much oil you use in a batch?
Ingredients:
3 oz beeswax
2 oz coconut oil
1 tsp essential oil or beard oil
In a double boiler, melt coconut oil and wax.
Stir until thoroughly mixed.
Remove from heat and allow the mixture to begin to cool.
Before the melted mixture begins to solidify, add essential oil and stir thoroughly.
Pour into containers and allow the mixture to harden.
To use, scrape a pea-sized amount with the back of your thumbnail, and rub it between your palms to melt.
Rub the melted wax into your beard, starting at the follicles and comb through with your fingers.
Shape and style as desired.
Reapply as needed.
Sure, I do roughly 3:2 ratio of beeswax and coconut oil by weight. I have a long, curly beard and a long mustache, so I like to have a little bit of hold to it. My beard is naturally soft, so it doesn’t really get scratchy or oily, but it will tangle if I don’t brush it frequently. The wax helps me look like less of a crazy homeless person.
Melt them both in a double boiler (I just use a metal bowl that fits in our small saucepot). After it is thoroughly melted and mixed, I take it off the heat and stir in about a teaspoon of essential oils. Heat can denature or evaporate the flavor compounds, so you don’t want to cook them. Then just pour it into a jar and let it cool. I’ve kept a bunch of old Oui Yogurt jars and bought lids, and I also bough a 48 pack of tiny plastic lip balm containers for portability. Those are great because I can put different flavors into different containers and try smaller quantities without wasting a bunch of wax.
I’ve also received a few different gift sets of various scented beard oils, which in my experience are often too strong, so I’ve used those to flavor the balm.
For essential oils, I like citrus like lemon, bergamot, or grapefruit, sometimes I use tea tree or eucalyptus and mint, and my wife really likes sandalwood, vanilla and bourbon. I am not a huge fan of cedar or oak, or the floral scents like lavender or rose. It’s going to be on my face all day, so I want it to be something that I like to smell, but not overpowering. Nobody on the subway should be able to smell my beard.
I think overall I spent about $50 on beeswax, organic coconut oil, and essential oils (not including the gifts) and have been using it almost daily for about 2 years.
The coconut oil did pass the “best by” date a few months ago, but I keep it in a cool, dark place and it doesn’t smell off yet. I’ll probably buy some fresh this fall.
The balm will develop an “off” smell if you leave it in the sun. I usually make fresh balm every 6-8 weeks. The small plastic jars last about a week, and the yogurt jar lasts about a month.
Edited to add the recipe up front. I realized I did that recipe blog thing that I hate where you have to read a journal entry to find the actual recipe.
Sounds like a good balm, but I think it will be a bit much for me. My hair is fairly scratchy, and i need stuff to soften it, so I think this may be a bit heavy for me.
You can decrease the wax and add more oil. But yeah, that’s a different problem than what I have. You might sub in shea butter, which I found made my beard too soft, but take that with a grain of salt because I didn’t like it.
Ya the deep conditioner I use like once a week has a ton of shea butter in it. Thanks for all the info.
My hot take is to completely avoid beard balm because it’s so greasy.
I used Groom and Clean, which is a water based leave in conditioner. Life chnaging.
I’m not a fan of leave in conditioners. Everyone I have tried has left me feeling idk gross after an hour. I occasionally use oil, but I mainly just use beard conditioner or this super thick coconut and shea butter like once a week. I just want a balm for a light hold.
Any chance you can link me to the one you buy?
https://www.amazon.com/Groom-Clean-Greaseless-Control-Ounce/dp/B072HV6LK9/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=2T8Z1B8OOMZ5G&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.tOAO4rzUCq9QZwmq44VHPSL50jNR9oZ9OqeURP3XEnFowwurpgRqAeNfvC9nNnBWdSE8LAXquIAJtjcj7LT56GSbQfuO9lJBHO5SDBJ3g-kRv4Xkp2M0vjCr9uVhaKLAdY4x5KxvhzRlOZTDGjgNWqjVaW-28Qqpo4OEyF1UOSLAQEeyjQvXv28VudTfOGjjow-ufu80tkd5hHVD5vITdQ.bE4_eUNR5Dv8C8GlRVPHpxB8EaWevoSS1g-opLBH-xI&dib_tag=se&keywords=groom+and+clean&qid=1723418357&sprefix=groom+and+clean%2Caps%2C133&sr=8-4
Great for hair instead of Hairspray too. That’s what it’s primarily for, but it leaves everything feeling so smooth without any greasy feeling.
Awesome I’ll give it a shot next time I’m ordering on amazon.
Is beard balm like Dapper Dan hair wax?
“I don’t want FOP, goddammit. I’m a Dapper Dan man.”
I mean, concentrating the good thing and removing the crap is the basis of medical care.
You know what we call alternate medicine that is proven to work? Medicine. If it worked we wouldn’t need “alternate”.
I always try to point out that “alternative” means it’s something different than. Like an alternative to something that helps. You wouldn’t eat “alternative food.” Because it’s not food.
Alternative meat?
I’m not sure where you are but I firmly believe a lot of what passes for food in the US is some sort of “food-like product.”
I like a couple of drops in shea butter for my skin and in a bath with Epsom salts for relaxing tight muscles and the scent relaxes the mind and makes me smell good.
Epsom salts don’t do anything for muscles: https://www.painscience.com/articles/epsom-salts.php
There are a ton of references in the article.
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Maybe. I never heard the detox stuff until now. A MD and on a different occasion, PT recommended 15 minute soaks with it, 12 being the magic minute. Either way, it softens the water, so that’s nice, and it’s inexpensive.
My skin always feels really soft after an Epsom salt bath. No idea why it does that, but I’m definitely a fan of the results.
Hard water makes soap harder to rinse, that may be a factor.
What else is in your beard balm?
Coconut oil and beeswax. Keep it simple. I used to add jojoba oil and other carrier oils, but it didn’t seem to make a difference.
Equal ratio?
3:2 wax to coconut oil for more hold in summer, 1:1 in the winter.
Final question: will my cat lick my beard even more fervently if I try this?
Is that a desired effect? You can use catnip or essence of tuna.
No.
Then Tuna is not recommended.