• swlabr@awful.systems
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    3 months ago

    As someone too cowardly to explore their kinks. I lack context. Now you have provided data to reinforce my reticence.

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      3 months ago

      it’s … not endemic, in the sense of “you’ll hit it every 3 profiles” (because fet community + platform seems to do a reasonably good job of handling it from reports etc), but you can see why it’s the type of thing that creeps and predators go for

      igwym re exploration. comfort, safety, trust, consent - all key. never do anything you don’t want to :)