• bighatchester@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I never understood how someone gets pregnant accidentally. I have 2 kids and both where very on purpose.

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        2 months ago

        Yeah you don’t want to get the girl pregnant you don’t cum in her pussy . It’s that easy I did it for many years .

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          If you see the world that simplistic, maybe you should have refrained from procreating.

          Birth control can fail. Pills can be forgotten or interfere with other medications, IUDs can fall out unnoticed, condoms can break or slip off, etc.

          If you have sex often enough, the chances of having birth control fail at some point creep up to 100%, and if you’re “lucky” that results in a pregnancy, and if the mother either has no access to abortions, or simply doesn’t want one, you have a child.

          Unplanned doesn’t mean unwanted or unloved. Many people in principle would like a child but don’t know if now is the right time and this person is the right partner, but if random chance over, they’ll take that hint and become parents.

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          2 months ago

          My brother had 2 unplanned children using the pull out method. First time should have taught him it’s not an effective birth control, but it wasn’t until the second kid that he really accepted it.

          So ummm I guess it’s not that easy for everyone lol

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            It’s likely this guy has a lower sperm count and doesn’t realize it. If it took him more than one month of trying, I am certain of it.

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          2 months ago

          No one said it was difficult, we said it was an accident. As in someone has sex without the express intention of bringing a human into the world.