• Fontasia@feddit.nl
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    2 months ago

    This is a horrible way to find out your mother is getting abused and was told that’s what a relationship looks like

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      2 months ago

      Not necessarily. Some women are conditioned with some but not all of patriarchal views. My mom is very much supportive of women having their own independence, but she is still prude and blames raped women for what they wear or how they behaved.

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        2 months ago

        Victim blaming is a way to protect your own despair. “Surely it can’t happen to just anyone! It must because of x reason!”

        You see this shit with everything that can simply happen. Disease, disaser, children born with disfigurements… Anything bad by chance.