• I Cast Fist@programming.dev
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    19 days ago

    I got a more direct case of rejection. 12yo me, at new school, 2nd week of classes, one of the girls that I thought was very pretty was asking others who they fancied. Once she came up to me, I meekly replied “You”. I got a very loud and angry “I HATE YOU!” as an answer. Up to this day, more than 20 years later, I have no fucking clue to any possible why, in her mind, I deserved that reply.

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      18 days ago

      You got that reply because you surprised her and her immature 12 y/o brain spat that out as the best response on short notice. It’s entirely likely that response had nothing to do with you in particular.

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      18 days ago

      B-B-b-b-BAKA!

      But you probably caught her off guard. I wouldn’t expect 12 year olds to really know how to express their feelings like that.