• AnIndefiniteArticle@sh.itjust.works
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    8 天前

    I don’t have to imagine it. Part of why I’m grumpy and bitching on the internet is that I’ve found myself unemployed with a deleted career and an almost-finished phd. I’m kind of at a loss for what to do or what comes next or how I’ll pay rent in two weeks. I’m scared and I was victim blaming myself. Thanks for helping to contextualize my pain and pull me back to reality. I’m doing a lot better now after talking to people on lemmy than I was last night or even this morning.

    • towerful@programming.dev
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      8 天前

      Yeh, venting on the internet helps. And it’s always great when you actually connect with someone.

      I always wish I’d learned a trade. Electrician, plumber or tiler. Get an apprenticeship, learn a trade, be a sole trader, do something physical that’s always in demand.
      Plenty out there to do, and it’s ok to mourn your last job (being a student/doctorate is a job).
      Connect with old friends and family. Meet some new people. Somebody will be looking for someone smart and compassionate

    • atomicorange@lemmy.world
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      7 天前

      You mentioned space science, right? I’m an engineer at an aerospace company, feel free to message me if you want to chat about the industry, I’d love to help if I can.