I’m wondering what types, colours, etc. of lingerie guys like seeing a girl in. I’d love if u shared pics of the kinds u like. DMs are open if u wanna send them there

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    4 days ago

    Anything is a privilege.

    If I had my choice it would be high contrast. Black lace on pale skin does it for me. It’s straight up classy suduction. White also works too.

    For a more wild night theres fishnets, straps or PVC. Red or black the go to colors here. Although hot pink can also work.

    I’ve bought all of the above for the wife and she’s worn it on request, but clearly considers it extra work.

    My dream is to have her wear something that matches the kind of sex she wants that day. So we can just get to it and I can snap into that role. Ranging from treating her softly like a virgin, straight like a seasoned married couple, wild like newlyweds or rough.

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      4 days ago

      I had a boyfriend who did that with my underwear. If I wore black it meant I wanted to do soecific things, if I wore white I wanted to do something else etc.

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        17 hours ago

        So I was window shopping and decided to provide examples. These are from the perspective of a man married for 20 years. I’ve spent thousands on garments and toys over the years.

        Vanilla, seasoned married couple

        Could be as simple as a t shirt with nothing under. Just a flash to get started. Usually skipping foreplay or doing just enough to ensure a good time. Lube and toys as needed. (Womanizer/rose does wonders)

        Otherwise blatantly asking for it. Exposing garments that don’t get in the way or are easy to take off.

        Newlyweds, passionate

        More lovey sex. Heavy on affection. Making out. Foreplay. No toys. Oral and fingers for prep. Lube if we have issues.

        Garments would be more coverage and possibly Lacey.

        "Fun" In the mood for something extra.

        Requires Communication before getting the limits down but any type of play would fall here. Spanking, hair pulling, teasing or roleplay.

        I think in addition to the outfit how it’s initiated matters a lot.

        Siductive for pleasing him.
        Bratty for torture.
        Dominant for topping.

        The same outfit can change the tone with a collar or cat ears. Straps, fishnets, cosplay and kink fall here.

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            11 hours ago

            Thank you. These are just random examples of stuff close to what we have in the closet. Wasn’t going to lay them all out haha.

            Hope you get motivated with your next purchase!

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    4 days ago

    I’ve discovered the cut, color, or style is far less important than the most important thing: how does she feel wearing it? If she feels sexy and ready to ravish or be ravished, it won’t matter what color it is. That feeling of sexiness radiates out like a magnetic field. How can I not be attracted?