The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/alondraemely on 2025-03-12 20:59:17.

My aunt and I have never had a close relationship because our personalities clash a lot. For New Year’s we had a small family gathering. She went and she was sick. She didn’t want to hug any of us because of it but as soon as I turn around she was hugging and kissing my baby and before I could say anything she just said “it’s fine, i’m drinking so I’m disinfecting on the inside.” This is not the first time she has crossed a boundary but this was my last straw. I reached out asking if she knew what she had because my baby got sick so I wanted to prepare myself and how to handle it. Also, I asked her if she’s ever sick again around the babies in our family to keep her distance because what’s nothing to us could be serious for the little ones. She never responded but called everyone talking about me. Now, the birthday is coming up and my family is divided but I’m not budging because I don’t even have a relationship with her to start with and I feel disrespected as a mother. Am I overreacting? So, AITA for not inviting my aunt to my baby’s first birthday party?