The original post: /r/amitheasshole by /u/Agreeable-Worth-6109 on 2025-03-13 05:17:38.

I work as a veterinary tech, I also am the only one working. My husband uses my job to start arguments, or when he is upset he will compare our home life to my job. Saying things like, “at your job I bet you can find things”, “if I was your boss you would listen to what I have to say.” AITA because I tell him to stop bringing up my job, and not to hate my job because it’s the reason we can eat and have a place to live. Also anytime I take our animals to work because they are sick, he thinks I’m just going to kill them or they are going to die no matter what. I’m good at my job and have been there for 6 years. I’m experienced with animals, but yet my husband doesn’t trust me with ours, and hates my job. I just don’t know what to do. I thought we were doing well in our marriage, but when he wants he can say hurtful things about my job. But AITA for not spending more time with him, or listening to him??