• Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world
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    14 hours ago

    If you’re well organized your autistic, if not, you are ADHD. If you fall in the middle, you are both.

    I know I’m old man shouting at clouds but it seems like social media is completely focused on classifying. It seems silly. It’s like Meyers Briggs personality tests.

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      8 hours ago

      My joke in my household is that no clean flat surfaces can exist.

      My medicated ADHD ass is still plenty messy, but my non-medicated wife will put any item down in any place when she’s done with it or it’s in her way. Then it disappears from existence for an hour or a month or so. Unless it’s outside or in a room we don’t use daily… then the possible range expands a lot.

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      7 hours ago

      And yet, despite people saying what you say, I still struggle far more than neurotypical people and they can’t understand why

      I am diagnosed with both, and do relate to social media posts regarding the combination of both

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        Oh sure it can be a problem. My issue is with the endless videos that do nothing but categorize and diagnose.

        It’s like what if there were endless videos about, “10 signs you are bad at math.”

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      14 hours ago

      The big problem with ADHD is that every human will experience the symptoms at some point in life.

      Every ADHD meme is relatable to pretty much everyone, but they don’t understand what it is for those symptoms to basically be your whole existence.

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        It is beyond exhausting. Nobody takes my serious neurological disorder seriously. I’m nearly thirty and only now I’m starting to get the medical help I would have needed 20, 25 years ago. To think what could have been breaks my heart.

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          Yeah it gives me superpowers like once every few months where for a day or 5 I get a ridiculous amount of work done. The rest of my existence is miserable and I hate myself for not just my lack of work productivity but also how hard it is to get myself to exercise, brush teeth, or just get out of bed. And not a single healthy routine sticks. Only the unhealthy ones. Why is it so easy to pick up smoking again but so hard to do anything that’s good for me?

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      Can confirm. Everything on top of my desk has a specific spot and orientation but anything additional, like important papers placed onto it will disappear from the physical nature of reality and my memory in a very short yet unknown amount of time

      I am certified both. Also this is why the term neurodiversity is so much better. Overlap is quite common.