Just finished watching the last episode of Before the 90 days…and I really think Gino needs a simple, ‘down-home’ girl, and not a lavish Jasmine. They’re spending habits are so different, it’s bound to cause problems. She has extravagant taste and immediately wants to change everything in his home, and he doesn’t have the money for it. Meanwhile, she spent $10,000 of his money on a butt-lift? She’s not frugal at al and just wants what she wants. I don’t see this going well. They’re plenty of humble girls in the U.S who would be perfectly fine with Gino’s kitchen, bedroom etcc

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    Jasmine’ BBL was stupid and is sure to cause drama. Overall, I would not want to be married to her!

    With that said, that house was a mess and totally unacceptable! He didn’t even make the bed or clean the toilet (or flush)! If he paid a cleaning service $200, Jasmine would still be asking for tweaks here and there, but when she walked into a dumpster, she rightfully freaked out!

    Again - not a big Jasmine fan but Gino did this to himself!

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      I don’t understand why he quit his job though. They’re never going to be able to afford the paperwork now that he’s quit his job.

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        I think that was a genius move. Jasmine is setting herself up to get her way everytime because she has “sacrificed everything to get to the usa” (even though she’s the one that demanded it). Now he can talk about how he sacrificed his job for her

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        I honestly wonder if the quitting his job is just a tv thing and if he’s really apart of the UAW strike that’s been going on for months now. But due to not wanting to get into the politics of the strike they just told him to say he quit instead of his industry is striking

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          Isn’t he an automotive engineer or something?

          I would never habe pegged him being a creative - he’s so utterly dull and soulless that he feels practically AI-generated.

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            Yes which makes this quitting thing make me believe even more that he is on strike. There’s only so many manufacturing sites still in Michigan that getting hired back on to probably only one of three employers in your state nearby seems like a fools errand.

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    It’s so weird how people mistake a person putting up with them for actual chemistry. She’s not a bad person and everyone has their own preferences but there are millions of quiet, humble, simple nerds who Gino could have real love and chemistry with but he chooses someone from another country who wants to be bathed in luxury (unlike him), who freaks out and screams (unlike him), who cares about aesthetics way more than he does, who is used to (and probably only respects) handsome, masculine, charmingmen who are dying to f her. It’s bizarre. And it seems like they don’t even have good intimacy (unless she started getting into golden showers which, she already seems to love shitting on him, so you never know).

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    I agree he could’ve cleaned up - at least changed the sheets and flushed the toilet! But even so, they’re incompatible. Not to mention the sexual incompatiblity

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    See… I don’t blame her tho. He isn’t the first person to exaggerate how much he actually has to win someone over. He’s not even the first on the show to do so. If he told her that he could buy her everything and would take care of her, it’s not her fault for expecting that. People always want to rag on materialistic girls or “gold diggers” but don’t want to cast blame at the men lying to them. If he had told her how it truly was, either she would have moved on which is her right, or she would have limited herself and stayed in his budget. That’s his fault.

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      You really think that she would stay in his budget. he’s been telling her she just doesn’t care and he’s stupid enough to deal with this shit. he’s gonna go broke because of her so it’s his stupidity.

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        I don’t think she would stay in budget, but i also think he didn’t even give her a chance to not come off looking like she is. He’s a dumb ass that lied and now his bank account is feeling the consequences. I wouldn’t be mad at her if she drained him then skipped her way back home.

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    I’m waiting for the conversation/screaming about how she now expects another $10k for a wedding dress, but Gino doesn’t have it to give her, or refuses to because he already gave her $10k for a wedding dress, but she spent the money on something else that was completely unnecessary.

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    Gino is a weirdo. He does not need or deserve a hot gf. His place looks like old people live there. Did he really think she would be okay with that? They are so mismatched.

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    You make some very good points and they are bound to always butt heads over money. However, I suspect that Gino has amassed a small fortune simply by being so frugal. He must have quite a bit of money tucked away if he is comfortable with taking a year off from work. Does that mean that he will want to spend it the way Jasmine wants to spend it? Noooooo. It’s an absolute mystery to me as to why they are attracted to each other — I just don’t see Gino being interested in a humble, frugal woman.

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      I agree. My husband is a frugal engineer. He bought a fixer upper house rather young and kept piling up money until we met and then he let me pick all the house updates and everything. It worked out great, but he would NEVER be on board with me getting a BBL. Has no problem with me spending his money, but I think a frugal mind will always be frugal. House updates are one thing, a BBL is another

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      Ya a single educated bachelor with an engineering job for almost 30 years, a small house, and no kids or even pets??? (And a short previous marriage.) Dude has savings. Thats why he’s playing in the league that he is and it’s worked for him.

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      I think it pains him to spend money on anything. That outfit he wore to the airport was something a 90 year-old man would wear to Denny’s

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    Just keeping up with the fillers on those gigantic lips will cost a lot.

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    Gino could have a peaceful, loving life with a nice lady from Michigan who is a 3/ 10 like himself. But he thinks he deserves a hot Latina on his arm. I have zero sympathy for him. Cheap weirdo motherfucker, as Jasmine screamed at him once

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      This is why men like Gino piss me off.

      They want a model, but do not understand the $$$$ it takes to look like that. I mean even if Jasmine didn’t get surgeries; nails, hair, hair removal, facials, skincare products, and other beauty shit costs money. And then they’re unwilling to share the expense…

      I will say her new hair looks good she looks cute (minus the lips haha)

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        I think he understands it costs money which is why he eventually gives in. I think he’s paying for the crazy GF experience. He found her on a sugar baby site. He knows exactly what he’s in for.

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        This is one thing that 90 Day has changed my opinion on. I used to think gold digger = bad and that was it. However, someone broke it down really well one season.

        She was asked if she’s with him because of his money. She basically said “yeah, that’s a big reason. Do you think he would be with me if I was ugly? We’re both getting what we want.” I think it was Larissa actually.

        It got me thinking how society makes gold digger a bad word, but a man who’s just with a woman for her looks is just a normal guy.

        So, yeah, guys like Gino piss me off even more now. PLUS, he literally met her on a sugar daddy website. Like WTF did he expect?!

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          It’s been happening forever… women wanting to marry doctors or lawyers or well to do families.

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            I don’t think I’ve ever heard of her. I haven’t watched the first few seasons of OG if that’s what she’s on. Larissa must have said it too then. 😂

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              oh anfisa is iconic she’s like the first 90 day “crazy” lady. the guy promised her money and gifts so obviously she expects that but turns out he’s like in debt or whatever and gets shocked when she isn’t okay with him not fulfilling his promises. u should def watch that season

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    I feel like we aren’t getting the full picture of their finances. Jasmine has been on onlyfans for a while and I’d assume she does pretty well on the platform. She probably just wants to use his money for everything and keep hers to spend how she likes.

    But money has always been a topic of issue for then. The hair extensions, the apartment, when they went ring shopping, Gino brought up how it’s all too expensive and wanted her to go cheaper.

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    He does need a girl from his home town, or just a normal girl who isn’t into all the procedures/surgeries, I truly hope it works for these 2 but I just can’t see it, I keep thinking she’ll take off like Natalie or Paola did for warmer weather & diff scenery.