That’s what people do here too they work really hard and save up for a down payment for a home except they don’t get to live rent free so it takes them a lot longer and they have to work a lot harder and once they get their house they have to keep working they don’t just chill and play video games while they have a baby on the way.
Is their season going to ever end? Will we get a Tell All so hopefully a lot of these reoccurring questions can be answered?
Haven’t they left the show?
Tell-alls are so disappointing these days. Shaun never asks the right questions, the participants (since they are all more or less mentally challenged) always side with the wrong people and I’m left feeling empty. Every time.
I agree with you. He is being lazy NOW. I believe he’s such a child still that he’s overwhelmed with everything and is trying to ignore and escape his situation with all the gaming. He’s going to be a dad. Time to step up.
i think people in this sub infantilize brandan for some reason and treat him like he’s an innocent little baby.
He’s fucking depressed because he is literally trapped. He’s responsible for his choices but she is as well. Her decisions have been equally baffling.
That’s the same sense I get… he’s TRAPPED and therefore very depressed. I’d be depressed too!
Learn what literal means.
Ok, cunt. I’ll do better next time.
The guy looks like he’s on the verge of killing himself.
I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if he felt that way. He’s fucked up his life so badly, but I want to tell him that there is hope and don’t do it.
Trying to analyze anyone on this show much less these two young people is crazy. How do most of the cast end up from this show , much less 2 of the youngest cast members ever. This is predictable
I believe couples should share responsibility and do so equally. What you have here are two immature people who had no business getting together or having children who are stuck in a bad relationship and situation. He doesn’t want to face reality his life is crap and he made a mistake so he escapes by playing games. She hates he’s irresponsible and lazy. Instead of having a conversation and expressing what they’re feeling, he ignores her, she probably goes after him making him react, they fight, then she grabs the camera and starts talking about what he did to her without talking about her role in the argument. She’s trying to prove he’s awful and abusive by detailing what he did but it’s clearly one sided. Notice how she’s crying, well fake force crying, and looking down reading the messages people are writing lol. She’s a piece of shit and a narcissist. He needs to run as fast as he can and support his kids and ask for equal custody. The problem is where does he run to? Back to the US? He certainly shouldn’t leave the house he paid for but kicking her out means his kids will be out too. This is a mess that’s going to end in tragedy.
I get he might be depressed and not knowing the language is hard but there’s no reason as to why he shouldn’t be trying to help with the farm or to cook or help clean or something. Honestly, both seem relatively lazy. They’re always asking for money online. And she’s seemingly still trying to make it big on TikTok. Either he needs to be more hands on so she can go back to school or he needs to figure out how to market himself locally to try to earn some form of income for their family. Either way, arguing about deciding between buying a newer phone or a video game, isn’t a good look when they constantly have a hand out, asking strangers for money.
They both made this mess. There are 2 people in a relationship.
He thought Mary was the answer to all of his emptiness, loneliness and neglect. However, as it turns out, Mary is not good for him as she is an abusive bitch. So now he’s trapped because he’s too stupid to use protection and doesnt want to leave his offspring
All I see is the ‘poor Brandan’ narrative. Him and Mary are BOTH responsible for the garbage, toxic life they are living. Brandan is an adult. He’s not a baby. He does not have to be trapped there, but he chooses too be. Mary is not a saint, she’s extremely manipulative. That doesn’t take away from Brandan’s issues as well. This really all boils down to 2 young adults who are paying the price for their messed up childhoods, they are immature and should not have brought children into this mess.
Brandan obviously put no thought or foresight into how he was going up support a family but Mary seems to be certifiably crazy in the coconut. They are a disaster in the making from day one. Both having fault of their own and while I do think Mary is worse, Brandan is just as responsible for ignoring all her red flags. I guess that’s what you get with damaged people.
Uh … who are these people saying it’s okay for him to be lazy?
He needs to be a citizen or permanent resident or something in order to get a job, isn’t that correct? Yes in the meantime learn the language and FFS wash a dish or two, maybe learn a skill for when the time comes and he can legally go out and earn money.
I moved to a new town to live with my boyfriend in April, and I took about three weeks off between jobs. We’re pretty set financially, so that time I spent every day cleaning, doing laundry, cooking, fixing things around the house, caring for our animals, and hiking every day. I wasn’t working, but I did absolutely everything I could around the house because I wanted to contribute in every way I could. I wonder if Brandon is depressed or something, because doing nothing all day isn’t normal or healthy behavior
It definitely wreaks of depression. When my depression gets really bad I would go into “shut down mode”. I did the absolute bare minimum to keep myself alive and just did mind numbing shit like scrolling through YouTube.I couldn’t get myself to do anything else even though I knew I really wanted to, it was like my body wouldn’t work with my mind.
So, someone added a “L-shaped” rat tail to the front of his hair? These people are fucked, like fucked. No need to make fake photos.
I don’t believe he is lazy, I think the gaming is like his way of escaping reality. I’m sure depression will hit soon if it already hasn’t. He knows, he didn’t make the right choice being with her and a child as well but now its like he is too far gone or invested in this. Her constant nagging because she doesn’t have any hobbies makes him even more miserable, so he is just like a little hermit crab at this point. Toxic relationships come in many shapes and sooner or later you completely lose your identity and just like give up and I feel like he is at that stage where he just doesn’t give a f@ck anymore and playing video games is his only way out because I’m sure he can’t drink or smoke there.