That’s what people do here too they work really hard and save up for a down payment for a home except they don’t get to live rent free so it takes them a lot longer and they have to work a lot harder and once they get their house they have to keep working they don’t just chill and play video games while they have a baby on the way.
I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if he felt that way. He’s fucked up his life so badly, but I want to tell him that there is hope and don’t do it.