• CommunicationAny7268@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    It’s an Asian cultural thing. My boyfriend and I call each other “piggy” too it’s just a cute nickname, nothing more than that. Give him a break. They seem to be very cute wholesome couple.

  • hamimono@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    Newbie coming in hot thinking he can mouth off and troll everyone from the jump so he can become a Legendary Super Villain over infinite seasons like Angela or Pred. He wishes. He isn’t even a diseased wart on Meemaw’s withered pancake ass!!! 😤

  • sigillum_diaboli666@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    My last relationship was with a Korean man. He used to always make fun of my “tummy”, so much I got to the point of wearing a t-shirt while we had sex. His nickname for me was “Angry”… Because I’d always be angry with him for treating me like crap - and yeah he used Korean & Asian cultural differences as cover. I am half-Asian myself so I get it, but at the same time, doesn’t make it less hurtful.

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      11 months ago

      If you say no and persons still calls you piggy why stay. They do not care and will not be there for you when you need them.

    • JannaNYC@alien.topB
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      11 months ago

      People treat you the way you allow them to.

      Something is broken in a person who dates someone who “always makes fun” of them.

      I’m hoping you found your spine and will never tolerate someone like that again.

    • Bernice1979@alien.topB
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      11 months ago

      My fiancé is Chinese and the family are harsh man. I was having a glass of wine with them the other day and they asked me why my chest was so red as it was blushing. They have no filter. My fiancé is a teacher and would call his students useless to me at home, but he doesn’t make fun of my body and I’m still recovering from the birth of our son. If he made fun of my body, that would be crossing a line.

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        11 months ago

        Learning this is all very interesting, thank you for sharing. Since I haven’t had much experience with Asian culture, i didn’t realize they are pretty blunt, this makes a lot of sense now that I look back. I’m really glad your partner isn’t making you feel bad, and I’m sorry that his family does 💜

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          11 months ago

          My friend is Korean but her family is sooooo brutal to her. She’s on the bigger side & that’s all they acknowledge about her even though she’s a surgeon! It was crazy to me seeing it firsthand.

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        11 months ago

        You would think they would understand why your chest was red when asian flush is a thing that probably effects them.

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      11 months ago

      I’m sorry you dealt with that, that guy sounds like a real jerk. I’m glad he’s an ex!

  • MarthaDumptruck99@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    Sometimes there are things that are just jokes between couples. My husband calls me “dumpy butt” when I wear sweatpants, and it’s funny to me - I actually came up with the term, haha! Most people would be like “why do you let him say that?” but sometimes things are just what they are between couples and it’s not harmful. I can’t say the same for these two, but just trying to illustrate that things that appear a certain way outwardly may not at all the the way it is between a couple.

    • Macghawkeye77@alien.topB
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      11 months ago

      I don’t know - that’s cute and all, but words can be so harmful. You can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube. I might be slightly jaded because I come from a long line of, shall we just say, “heavy-set” people, so we’ve heard it all during our lifetimes and hurt feelings are the result.

  • Whiteroses7252012@alien.topB
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    11 months ago

    Oh, good, another asshole. We’re definitely short of those in this franchise!

    I sincerely want to know how the only likeable person on this season became Jasmine. I just kind of want Jasmine, Coco and Rico Suave to ride off into the sunset together and live their best lives.