• admin@lemmy.today
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    I thought of sharing my experience but people here were already shouting “you are lying or exaggerating” to anybody who shared their experience opposing the narrative, So I didn’t bother, I reach out to some communities when I feel down or hopeless but don’t expect any support,I know I am not entitled to help but gaslighting that your suffering doesn’t matter or are not real sometime hurts, I’m just trying to find ways to deal with them alone.

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      i shared my experiences. nothing but insults and abuse were thrown at me.

      if anything bad happens to a man its’ because we deserve it for not being leftist enough, apparently. oh and even if you are leftist, and you are critical of leftistm or sympathic to non-leftists… well then you deserve to suffer and be in pain until you are ‘reeducated’ to the proper way of thinking where you are a true believer and never critical of any leftist talking point or belief…2

      it’s just all masked misandry where their rage at the social elites is projected onto working class and younger people, as if men suddenyl voting democrat is going to radically change our society… it won’t.

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        oh and even if you are leftist, and you are critical of leftistm or sympathic to non-leftists… well then you deserve to suffer and be in pain.

        I have experienced this one too, and it’s disheartening.

        it’s just all masked misandry where their rage at the social elites is projected onto the working class and younger people.

        I mean I kind of get it, social elites are so well protected and out of reach that angst people attack anybody who appears like them in their closest proximity.

        Anyway chin up we still have much more individual control over life than we think, Socializing is hard even more in developed countries and I don’t know your background to suggest that, but try therapy or counseling if not financially troubled, try finding some sports or gym community too it helps, don’t be hopeless there are still some people who are helpful and not hostile with misdirect anger. cheers!

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          I mean I kind of get it, social elites are so well protected and out of reach that angst people attack anybody who appears like them in their closest proximity.

          yeah man. that is the real rub. much easier to attack the average guy working to get buy and blame him for child-rape or something, than go after the social elites who actively do rape children.

          it’s so self-defeating. and why the left is so bad at coherent organizing and shit at social issues. the left does much better when it focuses on economics, but economics doesn’t morally outrage people as much as does rooting out the ‘wrong’ people from their political tent.

          socializing is easy as long as you avoid leftist idiots who spend all their time being hateful bigots who are shouting about how it’s the right a that is hateful bigots.

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            social elites who actively do rape children.

            One even became the president.

            socializing is easy as long as you avoid leftist idiots who spend all their time being hateful bigots who are shouting about how it’s the right a that is hateful bigots.

            I would not encourage that charged approach, I know some are very dismissive but yet that attitude will have net negative output.

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              I’m interested in my own happiness. Not making myself miserable for the sake of other people who choose to be miserable hateful bigots and take deep pride and joy in doing so.