• NoTagBacks@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    5 days ago

    Jesus, imagine not only equivocating all uses of caring with basic empathy, but then calling the capacity for empathy ableist. Dunning-Kruger is running wild in pop-psychology these days.

    • roscoe@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      4 days ago

      I see that as a bullshit copout for people that don’t want to care about people. Some of the nicest people I know are neuro-divergent, they just need to put a little more effort into figuring out what effects their actions have.

      Just because you lack empathy doesn’t mean you don’t, or can’t, care about people. It just means you don’t have an automatic, involuntary response to other people’s emotions. You can still care about people and desire good outcomes for them and want your actions to be positive for other people.

      Neuro-divergence that reduces, or eliminates the capacity for empathy makes that harder because you don’t get that immediate feedback, you have to figure out if what you’re doing has the desired effect in other ways. Which makes it harder, but not impossible. And definitely doesn’t prevent you from wanting to do it in the first place.

      If you don’t care about other people, you’re just an asshole. Stop blaming it on neuro-divergence.

  • GhostPain@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    I feel that second comment and as an elder AuDHDer Commie, that “not caring” is actively dipping down into the desire to do violence against certain red hat wearing segments of this population.

    • Sal@lemmy.world
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      5 days ago

      You’re not supposed to only desire to inflict violence on fascists, you are supposed to help the downtrodden too, and I think that’s infinitely more important as a leftist to do than just punch nazis and dunk on MAGA.

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        4 days ago

        How long are you going to hold your breath waiting for that to happen?

        If you were from the US Deep South you would know racists/white supremacists/MAGAts very rarely unfuck themselves.

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    4 days ago

    Yes. Between actual Nazis, competitively woke keyboard revolutionaries who appointed themselves Captain of the 101st Lecturing division, and enshittification everywhere in between, I’m about done with the Internet.

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    4 days ago

    Honestly I’ve played enough video games to know that after a while I just get tired of being nice and helping people.

  • stoly@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    I do love how everyone is suddenly ready to stand up to the US police and military.