We will not win men back to the left until we admit that young men are guilty until proven innocent… but young men will be assumed guilty until proven innocent as long as women feel unsafe around them…

So both problems need to be solved at once.

I am not heartless or believe that women don’t have reason to fear men.

I mean men think that being friend zoned is a tragedy? How must that poor woman feel thinking that she had just made a valued friend and all along he only saw her as a hole.

We cannot get Egalitarianism until we solve the problem of men and women not feeling safe around one another. And I don’t know how to fix that.

Men are scared they’ll be labeled monsters if a social interaction goes badly women are scared that they are being seen as a living fucktoy with no other purpose but to be fucked… and it’s hard to convince either group they’re wrong because neither one is.

And the worst part is as a trans woman. I have the worst of both worlds, am I going to be seen as a fuck, a felon, a freak, or a friend? Because I legit cannot tell how another person sees me.