Jovi likes the strip club because it’s a safe haven to do coke! Jovi is the guy who never wants the party to end and I’d bet money his m.o. in the club is to book a VIP room and do coke all night 😂 I think he’s being honest when he says it’s not about the strippers, but he’s not saying the REAL reason he likes the club. And that’s why Yara is (rightly so) confused af about why he won’t stop going.

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    10 months ago

    Coke is a stretch. I think he just wants the feeling of having available poonana whenever he wants it on display.

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    10 months ago

    I’m sorry wait what when did jovi fly nose first into a cocaino and how the hell did I miss it???

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    10 months ago

    It really is though. He’s a weirdo sex addict and he was before they got married and shocker nothing has changed. This was obvious. She made her bed sadly.

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    10 months ago

    There’s plenty of places you can do coke that isn’t a room full of naked women lol it’s absolutely about the strippers.

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      10 months ago

      Lol right! This clown was going to the strip clubs all night even when he was single and living alone where he could likely snort lines for days if he wanted.

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      10 months ago

      Hard agree. This isn’t about the party, it’s about the strippers and the fake attention. He wants to think he’s a player, but when you pay for it, you’re the one getting played.

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    10 months ago

    I mean he has been going since he was SIXTEEN. It definitely is an addiction at this point. I think he likes feeling like a “big man” because of course the strippers showed him with attention. Not because he is special in any way but because he is PAYING CUSTOMER

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    10 months ago

    I had a really weird seroquel induced dream that I (f) was going to hook up with Yara and she took off her pants and had a dick, but i was like well ok I’m bisexual guess it doesn’t matter

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    10 months ago

    He is working away from home. Tara isn’t around all the time. What’s preventing him from doing coke in his own apartment?

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      10 months ago

      I don’t understand people who get married and have kids knowing they don’t want that life.

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        10 months ago

        Honestly, I think there are men who like having a wife and a family but don’t really want to be involved with being an active husband be father. He likes the safety of having someone to come home to.

        This became more apparent to me in their relationship when he is actively trying to force Yara to have another child and she’s said on more than one occasion that she doesn’t want a second child and he doesn’t want to compromise to be home more to be with his family.

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          My husband works with a ton of these guys. They love to be traveling because they hate their wives and families. They’re always encouraging him to travel constantly. He would rather be with us though.

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        In all fairness, Myla was not a planned pregnancy. And Jovi candidly admitted that he would have never proposed to Yara had she not gotten pregnant the first time (when she later miscarried before their 90 days began).

        I get the sense that Jovi fell into both this marriage and pregnancy. I think the entire second kid discussion is less about Jovi wanting more kids/a traditional family life, and more about keeping Yara trapped at home, while he does whatever the fuck he wants while on his work trips.

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    10 months ago

    Yaras friends were busted for coke dealing if I remember right. I don’t think Yara is stopping him from doing coke

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      I completely agree with you. Yara is no dope. I don’t know if those girls with the drug connections were real friends or just reality-TV friends but if she’s hanging with druggies (and is married to a man who obviously has serious issues with alcohol abuse/addiction) she knows the score. Please.

      Also, she was on social media years before saying she wanted to marry a wealthy man (not that I consider Jovi wealthy!) Then she got some good cosmetic surgery and hooked up with Jovi and traveled around with him. Then had a baby with him. I don’t think she regrets any of it - just my opinion that this was the plan all along. She got a dud, but she’s doing OK I think.

      My standard answer for all these people is, hey, you picked him/her.

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      10 months ago

      As a stripper myself, I can tell you the men that come in are no saints 🤣 They definitely touch and ask for really disgusting favors (which is out of my scope of practice lol).

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      As a stripper myself, I can tell you the men that come in are no saints 🤣 They definitely touch and ask for really disgusting favors (which is out of my scope of practice lol).

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    This would make sense. He does give off that vibe. There are at least 2 drug dealers posted up at strip clubs most of the time. They pay for tables and it’s fertile, safe ground to jug. Everyone benefits in the situation so the club looks the other way. It would be a consistent venue to score some terrible quality yay.

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    I don’t know I think it’s all bs for storyline. Dancers from there were even calling them out saying it’s all phony and they use it for fodder to get another season in. I don’t think it’s that serious at all. I would even bet half of the alcohol he was drinking on the last resort was phony too. The show has gone so far down the fabricated stories I just can’t believe most of it anymore

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    10 months ago

    Nice theory OP. This makes the most sense out of any theories I have came up with or have heard. It checks all the boxes. Well done!

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    10 months ago

    This is the real reason he didn’t want the job close to home. He wouldn’t be able to do coke in the strip club all the time after work