I’m getting really sick of watching Nikki. I was excited to get to see a trans woman on this show, but Jesus is she fucking annoying.
The constant pressuring Justin for sex is gross. Seriously, if this was the other way around Justin would get so much shit for constantly asking her for sex. The fact that she just changed his name for aesthetic purposes is wild. The constant pressuring him and pushing him is kind of a lot.
But it all just boils down to her constantly never be satisfied with things unless she is 100% getting her way. She doesn’t compromise. It’s either her way or the highway, and there is no middle ground. For someone who constantly wants other people to accept her for who she is, she never returns that acceptance for anyone.
You think differently than her? Too bad. You don’t want to talk about something? Too bad. You don’t like something and it makes you uncomfortable? Deal with it. It’s very hypocritical and getting to be unbearable to watch.
She really doesn’t take into consideration the process this man has had to go through to get to this point. She lied to him and he even said to his friend that it took time for him to be comfortable with everything since he was clearly deceived.
He’s over there trying to learn English to understand and communicate with her meanwhile she’s just horny af and trying to get her rocks off. I also think he really cares about her but sex just isn’t the same like it was when they first were dating (ever since he found out the truth). Plus where is this relationship really going? Maybe he is holding on because she showed him life since she’s experienced. Maybe she can’t let him go because he’s a literal investment she made …call it what you want but she manipulated him into being the man she wanted, not accepting the man he actually is.
Yes all this. And he seems like a genuinely nice guy who she wasn’t honest with initially but he is trying to accept the situation. She has no patience for him. They need to move on. They both need a new start with people that know the truth from the beginning in order to give them a real chance to have love.
No one is going to accept Nikki until she starts accepting herself
You hit the nail in the head. You can’t expect others to accept you when you didn’t even accept yourself as the gender you were born with. No matter how many surgeries, hormones or transformations Nikki has had underneath she is still a he, and that is the root problem in this relationship.
I’m grossed out by the whole thing at this point. Igor needs to let this nightmare go.
Ooh! Ooh! I’m first to make my favorite comment this time!
The Nikki
She’s just too much woman for Igor!!!
Anybody else get the vibe that she was incredibly spoiled as a child, would throw a fit and get whatever she wanted from her parents? This is the vibe I get and it’s a really bad look for an adult.
I don’t know how he deals with her. I understand she owns him and he’s accustomed to the lifestyle she has afforded him, but c’mon! I don’t think he’s enjoying this decision. And she can’t dress decent for one day! He’s not asking for a kidney, just her in a modest fashion for the night. I truly believe he thought he could deal with her being trans, but he just can’t get that out his mind.
Well he would prolly be able to process things if she wouldn’t bring up the trans thing and give me sex now all the time. That has to be very difficult to seal with while trying to process feelings
I feel bad for the guy. She thinks he’s belittling her with jokes, but I think he’s trying to lighten the mood. She’s always mad about something.
I feel bad for the guy. She thinks he’s belittling her with jokes, but I think he’s trying to lighten the mood. She’s always mad about something.
She’s the type of person to walk through a door, get hers, and close it behind her. Selfish narcissist
His name is literally Igor and she refuses to call him by his name! It’s crazy
Unfortunately she fits the mold of so many Americans on this show: they seem to think the world should bend to them, and all their issues.
I dislike how pushy and manipulative she is, the fact that she throws a stop every time Igor tries to lighten the mood or do something that is communicating beyond sex, like the park date. But that isn’t the worst part; the worst part is that she, as you say, treats him like an accessory to her rather shallow life.
Whether Igor stays or goes to the US, Nikki is going to have to accept that being with him won’t fix her. She needs to understand that love involves peace, communication, understanding and patience. All the things she seems to think are good qualities in the relationship (his looks) are going to cause problems; how will she react when women 20 years younger than her are hitting on him?
In Nikki’s defense, Igor doesn’t seem to be able to make up his mind if he is attracted to her. And he should do that fast and let her get on with her life.
I was thinking yesterday and wondered how much of her erratic behavior is due to the hormones she’s on? Like her inability to control her emotions.
She alluded to that I think
She alluded to that I think
Igor should have turned the car around and dropped her off so she could pack (she keeps threatening to go back to America every time she doesn’t like something). No amount of money is worth her bullshit.
As annoying as she is, I get it. She’s insecure and should probably go to therapy, but she wants validation and Justin won’t offer it to her. Justin should just let her go.
Nikki is abusive. Being trans doesn’t automatically make you a good person.