1. He’s shady and secretive.
  2. He’s sexist and condescending.
  3. He didn’t want to introduce her to his family. Very very suspicious for a Latino man who takes so much pride in family dynamics. 4.He promised his family money, but knows he can’t work.
  4. I fully understand Spanish and his tone of voice is whinny as heck.
  5. TLC Translation doesn’t do his bullshit phrases justice, he’s an absolute prick.
  6. His face permanently looks like this 😒
  7. He mocks Ashley’s clear effort to speak Spanish, and it shows his lack of respect and appreciation for her. He reacts and talks back like a little child.
  8. His demand for a new phone was so strange.
  9. He hid big news from his mother and ignored her knowing she’d worry.

If he’s not just acting or following an instructed narrative/role I hope Ashley finds someone better. 🚮

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    Please Pray!!! for pay pay just letting everyone know the doctor said that Payten has conjunctivitis and thrush, her lil eye look so bad she is contagious and can’t be around anyone for thanksgiving my poor baby

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    Please Pray!!! for pay pay just letting everyone know the doctor said that Payten has conjunctivitis and thrush, her lil eye look so bad she is contagious and can’t be around anyone for thanksgiving my poor baby

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    The number one red flag… is him not liking animals 😒 after that I would have thrown the whole man away. Rico MF Suave 4Life!

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    I already hated him, but I couldn’t believe when he called her and her therapist a clown for wanting to work on a healthy relationship dynamic

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    I could defend him on several of these, a lot of it is cultural. Ashley’s not perfect either. BUT the way he talks to her with just absolute DISDAIN is SO disrespectful. I’d be out so fast if someone talked to me like that. You just can’t be in a relationship with that level of disrespect. He’s like if Homer Simpson were a real person and not funny

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    It’s awful! Would you ever let someone be so disrespectful to you? Watching it is so painful.

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    I’m Latino and his demeanor is total douche bag even for us. I wish Ashley was fluent in Spanish cause if she could understand some of the things he says, she would’ve already sent him on his way…or maybe not.

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      This is the most frustrating part of this whole season and this segment: just leave him already!

      Don’t put yourself into a decade of debt and misery over an overgrown child who refuses to change.

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      Tbh though, she also has issues, I mean, her opening scene was “ugly crying” and having a panick attack as she was driving…over picking up a guy she wanted here. I hope Rico MF Suave doesn’t get tossed to the side!

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      Tbh though, she also has issues, I mean, her opening scene was “ugly crying” and having a panick attack as she was driving…over picking up a guy she wanted here. I hope Rico MF Suave doesn’t get tossed to the side!

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    Ashley gets what she deserves. She chose him. I’m sure he’s been this way for the last 10 years and she chose to submit a k1 for him. That’s on her.

    Also the fact that she’s trashing him to her friends IN FRONT OF HIS FACE because his family (including his teenage sons that you want to meet so badly, remember) needs him to send them $300 per month.

    This situation is Daniele and Yohan 2.0

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    He abuses the “in my culture” card like was leaving your whole ass family part of your culture too?

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    He is no catch, that is true.

    But I am a little tired of seeing these nagging spouses running to a therapist because their man child from the developing world isn’t latin prince they had in their head.

    “Look at what I have to put up with!! I want to speak to the manager of relationships!”

    He is not what you thought, break up. Stop wasting time and energy on a man that does not want to change.

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      I get it, but also I don’t blame them for at least trying therapy first, after investing so much into the relationships. I feel like it’s one of those things where it’s only hard to leave when you’re actually in that situation yourself. That said, these men are garbage and the women should definitely leave.