Don’t ever let someone gaslight you into thinking what Rob the Knob did to Sophie was any less dishonest or selfish than physical cheating is. Physical cheating just hurts most of us in a different way. He didn’t do her any favors by soliciting inappropriate videos from women. He still snuck around behind her back and had sexual interactions with other people… twice. Ultimately, you decide what cheating is in your relationship, but please, don’t believe this “it could’ve been worse 🤷‍♂️” bullshit.

And maybe slam the door in the face of someone who shows up to apologize with a single rose… for cheating the 2nd time. You could probably do worse 🤷‍♀️

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    10 months ago

    Some things can only be learned with time & experience. It’s heartbreaking to watch.

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    10 months ago

    The only thing she’s guilty for is being emotionally immature. His behavior from the beginning has been passive, aggressive selfish bitch fits gaslighting and manipulation. He knows he doesn’t have anything to offer for a man his age so he takes a vantage of young women and when he has a fight he brings one rose. I’m glad her mom spoke some sense into her because obviously she goes back and he will cheat again mentally or physically. He can’t help it. It’s in his nature. He’s

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      10 months ago

      We’ve already seen in the preview that something happens cause she says she tracked his phone, so either he’s cheating or he’s lying about where he is going or something. Plus we know they broke up so…

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      Honestly, I think she’s pretty mature for her age. She’s doing really well when it comes to voicing her concerns and demanding what she needs from him if she’s to stay. She’s light years away compared to myself and so many of the women that I know at her age. She failed at stepping away from the relationship, but at her age, so many others would have caved a lot faster, without processing the gaslighting that he’s attempting.

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    So, he likes porn. Men of America, raise your hand if you like porn! Arms across America would shoot into the air. Many women join in, too. So, Sophie doesn’t like it (neither do I ) But, he is an adult. It is his choice. Yes, they have been through this argument before. She calls it cheating. He calls it entertainment when she isn’t around. Who can say who is right and who is wrong. They are immature.

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      If he wants porn it’s free on YouPorn. He was soliciting women to send him pics & videos & sent them dick pics. That’s cheating

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      It’s not porn. If he was going on some random porn site and watching videos I doubt she would care. He was sexting women. Big difference between watching random videos and having conversations with women who then send him dirty videos etc. he’s emotionally cheating on his fiance.

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    10 months ago

    How irritated Rob is at Sophie for showing that she is hurt, says everything about how guilty Rob really doesn’t feel about what he did.

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      10 months ago

      “Why don’t you trust me?!”

      does the thing she said never do again

      I WONDER WHY ROB? 🫠

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      this is probably the thing that angers me most about rob! sophie tries to talk about how she feels or just talking through her thinking and rob gets irritated/annoyed/angry with her?

      he takes everything as an attack on him and never sees himself as being in the wrong for anything. worst type of guy right here…

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      this is probably the thing that angers me most about rob! sophie tries to talk about how she feels or just talking through her thinking and rob gets irritated/annoyed/angry with her?

      he takes everything as an attack on him and never sees himself as being in the wrong for anything. worst type of guy right here…

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    He said it’s like “junk mail”. He’s not sorry, he completely minimized it and didn’t acknowledge her feelings or take accountability. And now it’s clear he has incredibly poor boundaries. Plus the ability to justify betrayal. Just the worst.

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    10 months ago

    Why not? Everyone has to learn. Shes like 23yo. She’s gonna make mistakes. We shouldn’t crucify her for it. This is how people learn. Everyone has a few relationships that they regret

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    10 months ago

    I like how this dude wants her to have kids with him yet can’t even keep it in his pants during what is supposed to be the honeymoon part of their relationship. So you’re telling me a couple of kids, money strain and life stresses later, you’re gonna be more faithful than you are now? Get real. That girl needs to run

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    10 months ago

    Rob is an absolute piece of shit human for the way he has treated her. He acts like she is so unreasonable for asking him for bare minimum.

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    Why not? Everyone has to learn. Shes like 23yo. She’s gonna make mistakes. We shouldn’t crucify her for it. This is how people learn. Everyone has a few relationships that they regret

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    She should’ve interpreted that as she’s not really important to him. She made it clear if he did it again she’d be done, and he was willing to risk that. I hate that she forgave him, but he’s taking advantage of her naïveté. If she was a bit older or wiser, she would’ve never gotten with him to begin with. He brings nothing but grief.