Watching the scene of them waking up in the morning was so uncomfortable, because it’s so common- not just among the cast members on this show, but also in real life. Someone isn’t in the mood for physical intimacy, the other partner sees they are pulling away, so rather than respecting their boundaries, they force themselves closer by pulling their bodies next to them, begging for kisses, etc. If she wanted it, she would not be pulling away, so stop. No matter what their sex life was before, people have any number of reasons for needing more personal space and that shouldn’t matter. It’s so disrespectful and shows that he values his wants above hers (also- see Nikki, Jasmine last season, Rob, Statler…)
The preview for the next show has them in a hotel room with him laying on the bed like he’s Rico-muthafckn-Suave owning that bed, she says he thinks he looks sexy but he looks like a blob, or something she said, she’s standing there looking at him with her arms crossed…he ain’t getting none that night either. This is why the sisters po’d, he’s probably always in these relationships where the woman is so not into him, maybe using him, and she’s who has to dry his tears after she’s already told him the girl ain’t interested.
And he told the camera “I don’t want to pressure her” but then kept telling her he was sad because she wanted to go to sleep. Yeah dude, that’s emotional manipulation and definitely pressure