In a similar vein to the question posted earlier today, I wanted to know what book reco would you see as a huge green flag when dating, and why?
My answer: Lonesome Dove
Why: It delves into themes of friendship, loyalty, and the complexities of human relationships. If they like the book it tells me they have an understanding of the nuanced dynamics that make human connections meaningful.
Not tinder, but a guy I met at school once (kind of through a mutual from a club we were in/kind of through an event on campus that we ended up talking at). The second time I ran into him, we somehow ended up talking about Kurt Vonnegut and Douglas Adams and a few other authors and books we loved for a while and he invited me to other club events at school before he eventually took me to a garden on a date :))
Now we’ve been going on dates for 11 months and officially dating for 9 months.