I’m into warm water surfing and US is mainly too cold.

But what I’m stating is ppl knows this but will complain about it on Reddit

Ppl always want one option to fulfill everything in their lives when majority of times, it can’t. You just need to understand pros and cons and different things offer different benefits. No one thing will ever do that. This kinda hold true for relationships also. Some few are lucky to think their partner fulfills everything but most don’t. It will be same across most parts of your life