Safewords are agreed by participants ahead of time, happening to know their magic word isn’t the same thing.

There’s a big difference between not bowing to respectability politics and respecting the culture of other instances.

I’d be willing to see if they improve but they’ve got a fair bit to make up for after that last thread.

There is also the ancillary cooling vest industry, that actually got successful enough to spin off into its own thing outside furry.