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Cake day: September 14th, 2024

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  • The puppy won’t get any easier, it’ll only get harder. It will get a lot harder before it gets any better. Honestly puppy training sucks. Are you a big dog person? Do you need to raise this dog? Why not home another older/well trained dog? Senior dogs are in dire need of homes everywhere.

    That being said you will rise to a challenge if you set it for yourself. I know you probably don’t resonate with that reasoning right now, but if you try to internalize it you’ll find yourself fighting regardless of how bleak it all seems.


















  • I don’t see a purpose to this line of thinking outside of shaming consumerist lifestyles. Which, while absolutely worth denigrating, are imposed on and used to pacify. I think it fails to address the unique conditions in the west. Outside of the west, I think you have more of a leg to stand on.

    When western countries hover between 50-70% in ‘white collar’ work, it’s debatable exactly what masses you’re talking about. I don’t think the struggles for socialism can be or should be experienced only by those in poverty. There’s an obvious contradiction in building socialism in the west at all, but that doesn’t mean we still don’t need to do it as a moral imperative.



  • I’ve heard a lot of similar things in my time browsing Chinese social media. I didn’t see much of any LGBT presence when I visited there years ago, so everything I’m saying is white boy western speculation, but -

    Identity-based cultural changes move much faster in liberalized countries with a strong focus on the individual. That’s the only reason why transgender rights have progressed as fast as they have in the past two decades. I’m not making a value statement here on either liberalization or the rapid onset of transgender acceptance in the west. I just think the TQ+ side of the equation found easier footing in the west because they worship the individual (Not that I would describe the cultural change as ‘easy’ in general).

    My general read of the situation based off what memes are deemed acceptable on Chinese social media is that LGB rights aren’t as hotly contested as TQ+ rights, and the Chinese cultural climate is still in a period of change regarding this. There’s no specific anti-discrimination laws based on sexuality, for example, but the rates of homosexuality in the population is observed as roughly the same in the west. This suggests people aren’t repressing their sexuality any more than they already are in the west.

    You also see almost no anti homosexual sentiment on social media, but anti transgender sentiment is very common (again, based on personal experience with their social media feeds. YMMV)

    I think it’s inevitable that China catches up in this regard, it will just take longer. The thing about minority groups is they’ll usually end up organizing and advocating for themselves in political ways. For the time being, I wouldn’t celebrate China as a cultural bastion for sexual minorities or anything.