Peaceful Shadows

Auckland have had a great year in AU football: the Warriors and AFC winning the ALM GF.

Reading Anti-Zionism by Benjamin Moser has been a tremendous education for me. Jillian Segal should never have been placed in this position and must be resisted at every turn, for the sake of all Australians including Jews.

I don’t think the HCA would touch this. But then again they freed Pell so what do I know.

I went out there today from Sydenham in the afternoon. The short distance between stations makes a difference to the overall speed (doesn’t seem as fast as on the other parts of the line.

The biggest head scratcher is the way the two Bankstown stations are split apart. Why not have the Metro and Trains on the same platforms a la Chatswood?

Still, glad to have the Bankstown line back after so long. I didn’t swap to the T6 and go to Lidcombe, but will do soon.

I haven’t played for a few years but it used to be shockingly expensive for seniors. Essentially froze out many of the lower income people.

There have never been a million (AU) Aboriginal people living on the planet at one time. I’m Koori. We don’t need ‘science’ to build us up to be more acceptable to western eyes (this includes Bruce Pascoe). We’re just fine as we are. The 1788 was just as genocidal whichever way you look at it.

Clueless.

She was a known author though. Her biography of Hawke was on so many shelves in homes you visited in the 1980s. And I remember studying Turtle Beach as part of an Australian Literature unit at UNSW in the 1990s. Like, she was a serious author. But of course popularly she was just the ‘other woman’ who broke up the Bob/Hazel marriage.

Bunnies Warriors Cowboys Panthers

*But not convinced on the Cowboys

Yes I think you’ve hit the nail on the head here.

All this is true but just taking the time to validate those externalities would be so helpful. You know, giving their take on how screwed up the forces outside have become on making people’s lives difficult. That validation alone would be such a helpful therapy tool. But in my experience it’s almost like they barely want to touch it. Why not? It’s almost dehumanising not to. What are they so competent or wealthy they don’t feel the awful pressures as well? They don’t have an opinion as to why the voters around the world, say, are increasingly turning to fascist alternatives for example out of desperation? It almost seems weird.

The therapist doesn’t need to change society for you/us (which is impossible of course), but acknowledgement just of itself would be so validating. So, so validating.

Because they don’t make outrageous claims. Because they don’t promise completely undeliverable outcomes. Because they don’t blame thy neighbour for all your problems. In short, because they’re too rational.

I’m so done with therapy. I’ve been going since 1989 and whilst there have certainly been some worthwhile insights, I believe the whole thing is as much about propping up the economic stakeholders (the ‘industry’) as it is about effective help. It’s a lazy no-effort button GPs, employers, friends, anyone, can press to rid themselves of listening to your ‘problems’. So you pin all your hopes on it to find relief. It’s such a let down.

There are so many issues. Firstly, it is situated with a culture. A western capitalist culture. I reckon it’s all about making you feel less like the obvious wage/mortgage slave you are and more like an ‘empowered’ ‘aspirational’ boss. CBT is definitely gaslighting. But the biggest elephant in the room is how the 80% of your problem – the societal and market forces pushing down on you – are never referenced as the cause. They are scarcely offered an a discussion point. Like, the very thing which fucks you up is indiscussible. It’s always what ‘you’ can do. Basicallly it’s: ‘you’ve got an attitude problem’.

Big money must think we’re all a bunch of complete morons electorally.