Overthinking is thinking your friend said “how are you” in a specific tone that maybe you should of asked how they were, thinking they had something they wanted to say or sitting in front of the ice cream case for 10 minuets trying to decide what flavor you will be feeling when you get home.
Overthinking is not cussing out your partner and accusing them of cheating and ruining their social life.
I don’t understand the supposed charm of the mother living in the closet, it gives codependency issues. No woman in their right mind would think that’s a totally normal environment to explore a relationship in.