Truthfully, I thought she had a lot of patience especially when they were burning literal shit & sprinkling piss in the house. I think she’s a a basket case at times, but I haven’t seen her do anything that should equal this amount of hate (at least that I remember) . She was literally saying she was depressed and TJ didn’t do a single thing but gaslight her into going back to America and told her it was her own fault. His family seem insufferable & I’m sure most people on here wouldn’t be able to deal with that. Sharing a space with a brother & stepmom who are condescending and rude and demand you to do things that wasn’t planned would make me scream too.

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    Um, re-watch her earlier episodes…??? She’s a cultural ignoramus & spiritual dilettante with a me-first attitude

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    I felt for her in this episode. I was her in my marriage. Yes, I needed help properly regulating my emotions, but when I tried to communicate to my husband what I needed, he would never hear me or validate my feelings. He just made it about him and he would get defensive and shut down. It literally made me insane and one night I slammed a door so loud after screaming at him. I had an anxiety attack at work the next day. I had tried therapy but didn’t like my therapist so I quit. I apologized for my behavior but I cried and cried to my husband that I needed help and didn’t know what to do. He told me he couldn’t help me, I had to figure it out.

    Anyways my marriage only lasted a year. I got a new therapist whom I love and I’m learning how to regulate my emotions better as well as how to properly communicate. But I also understand now that a lot of my anxiety and behavior with my husband was because of him and who he is. He brought out the worst in me. Wish I never married him but at least I’m out of it now and moving on.

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      Good for you for recognizing your worth and getting out of that relationship! I hope you’re doing well now

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    I honestly thought she was a title fruitcake when they showed the scream out of context in the ‘coming this season’ clip but in context I feel sorry for her.

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    Indian men can’t leave their Momma’s. Only an Indian woman would understand and accept. But, Kimberly needs mental help. Somewhat Bi-polar or ADHD. Horrible situation. LEAVE INDIA.

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    When TJ left the argument and the first thing you hear as the door closes is TJ yelling MUMMY and proceeding to give his family more ammunition to use against her. His mother is an extremely nasty woman and has done nothing to help the situation and his brother is a jerk. I’m glad Kimberly came back to the states and got her smile back in a grocery store with her onions and garlic and I hope she stays here and divorces him.

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    I agree with you. TJ lied to her and deceived her into marrying him. But I wish Kimberly would’ve done some research about where she was going, first. It might’ve saved her some of the heartbreak and headache that has come with TJ and his family. They are horrible to her for no reason.

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    Yeah, but that’s a you thing, just cause you can’t see it doesn’t mean it not there. No one owes you a dumbed down explanation.

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    She had so many reasonable good points and I’m absolutely on her side. But she has uncontrollable rage to a dangerous extent. It’s very important in life to learn to self regulate emotions or else this will get worse and she will hurt herself or someone else. There are 1000 other better options in any conflict then throwing your head back and horror movie screaming. And how quickly she escalates from normal (albeit difficult) conversation to explosive rage is scary

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      She doesn’t seem like someone I’d enjoy being around, but uncontrollable rage? She let out a loud scream of frustration when he was going out of his way to belittle her. To me uncontrollable rage would be her physically attacking him, or ripping a bunch of things off of his car, or slamming a cake into his face because she was mad, and yes I’m deliberately pointing out Angela’s behavior here. It wasn’t a great look for Kim, but it also felt understandable that she was fed up with him at that point. Walking away and screaming into a pillow would have been a better approach, but he also just runs away if she isn’t actively trying to get him involved in a conversation. She wasn’t violent, in spite of the number of comments on this one talking about how many people wanted to reach through the tv and smack TJ during that scene, and she only screamed and it wasn’t even at him because she looked up and let out the scream. That doesn’t feel like someone who is out of control at all, that felt like letting off steam to avoid losing her temper and trying to continue the conversation without descending into insults and personal attacks. She threw out a well deserved mama’s boy kind of insult when he went running to his mommy to complain, I mean come on if you’re old enough to get married you’re old enough to have a disagreement without involving your mother in it. Running away yelling for his mommy was by far the more immature response out of the two of them.

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    Hate her she’s acts oblivious and doesn’t even try to do any google searches about how wedding ceremonies are in the US

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    I think TJ doesn’t know how to comfort her. He’s struggling too with being in the middle. TJ needs to choose who he’s aligned with. He did Kimberly wrong by not being honest about his family’s expectations. I hope they move to USA, or this marriage is over.

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    She needs to leave! All I see from him and his family are spiteful, narcissistic bullies who want her to confirm to their little box and don’t care about anything but getting the perfect little drone of a woman they want for their pig of a son.

    I get so mad watching the way they treat her, especially having been in an abusive relationship myself and getting out. It’s like GIRL RUN DO YOU NOT SEE THE 50 FOOT TALL FLASHING NEON RED FLAG