I know this probably get asked a lot, but me and Bf want to move with his family out of America. We have all been scouring online for 2 years, but are clueless where to start we have a few countries we have looked into (Germany, Spain, Ireland, New Zealand and the Netherlands) but are open to more options. We just do not agree with what is going on here and considering I am Trans living in Florida, I really want to leave. I (23 M) and he (24 m) are both still in school working (I’m going for neurobiology and him photonics/ mechanical engineering) part-time, while his parents are both still working full time salaried jobs. We want to hopefully finish school, but Would be unable to afford to pay for both of us as I currently am funded by FAFSA. We are willing to work and go to school if it is an option. At this point I am hoping to find somewhere with a more mild climate as it helps the health conditions I do have when I lived in the mountains in Washington more than the sub tropics.

Mostly asking for any ideas of others who have left the US maybe in similar conditions, and how you did it?

  • minidiscokid@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    Even if you managed to both get a spot at a European or New Zealand university, there is 0.00000000001 chance you would ever be able to bring family unless you found a high paying job and could sponsor them.

    You’re trans, and that’s the reason you want to move? Besides New Zealand, have you actually looked into the conditions for trans people in these countries? It’s hardly any different than a blue state, in fact some blue states give you better protections with your insurance on surgeries and hormones. I live in the Netherlands and it’s not as universally trans friendly as you think, and again, fat chance finding housing for a family in a big city.